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Marriage

How to Stay Connected So You Don’t Feel Like Strangers at Bedtime

By Mary Whitman Ortiz • August 8, 2025

How to Stay Connected So You Don’t Feel Like Strangers at Bedtime

Drifting Apart in Your Marriage? Tips to Rekindle Intimacy

February 10, 2025

Drifting Apart in Your Marriage? Tips to Rekindle Intimacy

3 Reminders for Building the Best Marriage Ever

February 7, 2025

3 Reminders for Building the Best Marriage Ever

Sexual Intimacy

When Your Spouse Wants Marriage Without Sexual Intimacy: How to Bridge the Gap

By Mary Whitman Ortiz • August 8, 2025

When Your Spouse Wants Marriage Without Sexual Intimacy: How to Bridge the Gap

Before Sex: 3 Things She Needs – Husband Alert

February 10, 2025

Before Sex: 3 Things She Needs – Husband Alert

What Does Your Sex Life Say About Your Marriage?

February 10, 2025

What Does Your Sex Life Say About Your Marriage?

Things Christian Wives Don’t Normally Say About Sex That Would Help Newly Married Women

February 10, 2025

Things Christian Wives Don’t Normally Say About Sex That Would Help Newly Married Women

What’s Good About Sex? It's So Much More Than Pleasure!

February 10, 2025

What’s Good About Sex? It's So Much More Than Pleasure!

Communication

4 Ways to Make Your Communication More Effective

February 10, 2025

4 Ways to Make Your Communication More Effective

Communication in Marriage: Does This Keep You from Going DEEPER?

February 10, 2025

Communication in Marriage: Does This Keep You from Going DEEPER?

Relationship Health

Fight Proof Your Marriage

February 10, 2025

Fight Proof Your Marriage

3 Steps to Resolve Conflict with the Right Motivation

February 7, 2025

3 Steps to Resolve Conflict with the Right Motivation

Personal Growth

How to Love When Someone No Longer Honors You: The Power of Setting Boundaries

February 10, 2025

How to Love When Someone’s Disrespectful Behavior Pushes Your Buttons

How to Be Authentic and Increase Trust in Your Marriage

February 10, 2025

How to Be Authentic and Increase Trust in Your Marriage

Christian Living

Pornography Lies About Sex: A Truth About Intimacy and Relationships

February 10, 2025

Pornography Lies About Sex: A Truth About Intimacy and Relationships

How to Love When Someone’s Disrespectful Behavior Pushes Your Buttons

February 10, 2025

How to Love When Someone’s Disrespectful Behavior Pushes Your Buttons

Church Leadership

Can One Person Change the World? Shifting the Sexual Culture

February 10, 2025

Can One Person Change the World? Shifting the Sexual Culture

Helping Couples Experience Healthy Sexual Intimacy in Marriage

February 10, 2025

Helping Couples Experience Healthy Sexual Intimacy in Marriage

Let’s Be Friends

Night snorkeling with the Manta Rays in Hawaii!! Wow! Definitely out of my comfort zone but a once-in-a-lifetime experience. This is called adding fun and adventure to your marriage. Did one of us get fatigued and leave early? Did one of us do it one-handed because the other hand held onto a go-pro? Well, we’re different but still for each other. Let’s have some real talk about marriage! Let’s have some real talk about intimacy in marriage. Stay tuned for the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast launching on Nov 11. #christianmarriage #intimacyinmarriage #wedofun #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast

Night snorkeling with the Manta Rays in Hawaii!! Wow! Definitely out of my comfort zone but a once-in-a-lifetime experience. This is called adding fun and adventure to your marriage. Did one of us get fatigued and leave early? Did one of us do it one-handed because the other hand held onto a go-pro? Well, we’re different but still for each other. Let’s have some real talk about marriage! Let’s have some real talk about intimacy in marriage. Stay tuned for the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast launching on Nov 11. #christianmarriage #intimacyinmarriage #wedofun #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast

Keeping your dreams alive requires you to think outside of your everyday box. It takes a focus but it’s worth it! Those are some of the marriage tips we’ll share on the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast launching on Nov 11! #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #intimacyinmarriage #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast

Keeping your dreams alive requires you to think outside of your everyday box. It takes a focus but it’s worth it! Those are some of the marriage tips we’ll share on the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast launching on Nov 11! #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #intimacyinmarriage #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast

Enjoying your spouse’s company even in everyday life is such a gift. Be intentional. Maybe that means slowing down to appreciate things that are right in front of you. #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast

Enjoying your spouse’s company even in everyday life is such a gift. Be intentional. Maybe that means slowing down to appreciate things that are right in front of you. #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast

We spent the morning apart. Tim was golfing while I walked the beach path and came back to the room to steal some time to edit podcast episodes. (Yes, the Sexual Wholeness Revival launches on Nov 11!!!) but then, we chilled together for the rest of the day. Love making memories with this guy! Thank you, God!! #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #faithandsex #sexualwholenessrevival

We spent the morning apart. Tim was golfing while I walked the beach path and came back to the room to steal some time to edit podcast episodes. (Yes, the Sexual Wholeness Revival launches on Nov 11!!!) but then, we chilled together for the rest of the day. Love making memories with this guy! Thank you, God!! #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #faithandsex #sexualwholenessrevival

Loving our getaway! I even squeezed in some time to edit our upcoming podcast. Launching the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast is almost as exciting as this natural paradise. #christianmarriage #sexualwholeness #marriagehelp #tropicalvacay

Loving our getaway! I even squeezed in some time to edit our upcoming podcast. Launching the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast is almost as exciting as this natural paradise. #christianmarriage #sexualwholeness #marriagehelp #tropicalvacay

✨ Big news! We’re launching the Sexual Wholeness Revival Podcast! ? Nov 11!

Want to be on the launch team?

Pray ?, subscribe ?, & share ? to spread God’s design for intimacy in marriage.
DM me if you’re in! ?

#MarriageMatters #SexualWholeness #PodcastLaunch

✨ Big news! We’re launching the Sexual Wholeness Revival Podcast! 💜 Nov 11! Want to be on the launch team? Pray 🙏, subscribe 🎧, & share 📲 to spread God’s design for intimacy in marriage. DM me if you’re in! 🚀 #MarriageMatters #SexualWholeness #PodcastLaunch

Get a thriving connection in spirit, soul, and body… for a marriage according to God’s original design. #Sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast #Christianmarriage #faithandsex

Get a thriving connection in spirit, soul, and body… for a marriage according to God’s original design. #Sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast #Christianmarriage #faithandsex

Brandon Lake concert- so excited!!

Brandon Lake concert- so excited!!

Is self-care selfish? Not at all. It’s you honoring who God made you to be. It breathes respect into your marriage. You’re showing up authentically and proactively. That reduces anxiety and increases confidence. What a gift!# #Selfcareinmarriage #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #intimacyinmarriage

Is self-care selfish? Not at all. It’s you honoring who God made you to be. It breathes respect into your marriage. You’re showing up authentically and proactively. That reduces anxiety and increases confidence. What a gift!# #Selfcareinmarriage #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #intimacyinmarriage

?️ Has your marriage experienced a storm? For many couples, one of the hardest storms is painful sex—it leaves you feeling isolated, discouraged, and unsure how to rebuild.

But just like a town can come back stronger after disaster, your intimacy can be restored too. ?✨ Pelvic floor therapy helps heal the physical pain, and coaching gives you the tools to reconnect emotionally and spiritually.

? Don’t stay stuck—healing is possible. ? Watch the new video + set up a discovery call to start rebuilding intimacy the way God intended.

Link in bio.

🌪️ Has your marriage experienced a storm? For many couples, one of the hardest storms is painful sex—it leaves you feeling isolated, discouraged, and unsure how to rebuild. But just like a town can come back stronger after disaster, your intimacy can be restored too. 🌊✨ Pelvic floor therapy helps heal the physical pain, and coaching gives you the tools to reconnect emotionally and spiritually. 💡 Don’t stay stuck—healing is possible. 👉 Watch the new video + set up a discovery call to start rebuilding intimacy the way God intended. Link in bio.

If you’re experiencing pain during sex with your spouse, don’t stay stuck there. Through pelvic floor therapy, emotional support and relationship tools, you can rebuild your intimacy and make your connection even stronger. #intimacyinmarriage #sexandmarriage #sexualwholeness #christianmarriage

If you’re experiencing pain during sex with your spouse, don’t stay stuck there. Through pelvic floor therapy, emotional support and relationship tools, you can rebuild your intimacy and make your connection even stronger. #intimacyinmarriage #sexandmarriage #sexualwholeness #christianmarriage

Even if it’s awkward, isn’t it worth talking about to get the results you want?

If you are struggling with pain during sex, ED issues, bladder leaks, or low core strength you might need to know about your pelvic floor muscles.

In this video, I’m sharing 6 pelvic floor therapy benefits you never knew you needed and why taking care of your pelvic floor can completely change your quality of life.

Link in bio.

Even if it’s awkward, isn’t it worth talking about to get the results you want? If you are struggling with pain during sex, ED issues, bladder leaks, or low core strength you might need to know about your pelvic floor muscles. In this video, I’m sharing 6 pelvic floor therapy benefits you never knew you needed and why taking care of your pelvic floor can completely change your quality of life. Link in bio.

As a relationship coach and Christian sex educator I help couples in a variety of ways. Sometimes your intimacy issues are physical and medical support is the best course of action. #intimacyinmarriage #sexandmarriage #christianmarriage #sexualwholeness

As a relationship coach and Christian sex educator I help couples in a variety of ways. Sometimes your intimacy issues are physical and medical support is the best course of action. #intimacyinmarriage #sexandmarriage #christianmarriage #sexualwholeness

Do you want to leave a legacy of love?

If you want your children to grow up and flourish in their relationships, it works best if they see it in you, at home... everyday.

How can you show more respect, affection and trust in your marriage?

Join the True Intimacy in Marriage couple's class on:
Wednesday, Sept 24 at 6:30 LIVE at
New Life Christian Fellowship
2701 Hodges Blvd Jacksonville, FL

DM me for details for the in-person class or how access it online.

Do you want to leave a legacy of love? If you want your children to grow up and flourish in their relationships, it works best if they see it in you, at home... everyday. How can you show more respect, affection and trust in your marriage? Join the True Intimacy in Marriage couple's class on: Wednesday, Sept 24 at 6:30 LIVE at New Life Christian Fellowship 2701 Hodges Blvd Jacksonville, FL DM me for details for the in-person class or how access it online.

I am so grateful for this man! It is a gift to know you are loved well.

I am so grateful for this man! It is a gift to know you are loved well.

I grew up watching

I grew up watching "The Love Boat". (You're singing it now, right?) The main thing it taught me about relationships was pursuing romance and ultimately sex. Boy! Was that a FAIL! And, that's so mild compared to what we see in the media today. You’re seeing a misrepresentation! It’s a counterfeit version. No wonder so many couples struggle with sexual intimacy. If all you’ve seen modeled (or experienced personally) is the selfish, harmful, and despicable aspects of sex, then, I completely understand why the idea of ‘good’ sex by God’s design is so far off your radar. But there is a good way that brings unity, freedom, oneness… the feeling of being truly seen, known, and valued. Your whole person comes alive!! It’s pleasure, passion, purpose, and MORE! If you are up for a challenge: to leave the hurtful ways of the world and pursue The GOOD that God intended, then, this week’s video is for you! Watch: The Good Side of Sex God Intended (That Many Couples Miss) (link in bio)

Husbands, how much mouthwash does it take for your wife to want to kiss you after your beer and cigar time? #marriagehelp #limitlessintimacy #intimacyinmarriage #christianmarriage

Husbands, how much mouthwash does it take for your wife to want to kiss you after your beer and cigar time? #marriagehelp #limitlessintimacy #intimacyinmarriage #christianmarriage

Shift your sexual intimacy from a battlefield to a private paradise.

If you want MORE connection, LESS fighting, and a clear way to align with God's original design for sex, the True Intimacy in Marriage couple's class is for you.

Join us LIVE on Wednesday, Sept 17, 6:30 PM at
New Life Christian Fellowship
2701 Hodges Blvd
Jackksonville, FL

It's interactive. There's private couple chat time. It lasts 10-weeks. It's FREE!

DM for more details.

Shift your sexual intimacy from a battlefield to a private paradise. If you want MORE connection, LESS fighting, and a clear way to align with God's original design for sex, the True Intimacy in Marriage couple's class is for you. Join us LIVE on Wednesday, Sept 17, 6:30 PM at New Life Christian Fellowship 2701 Hodges Blvd Jackksonville, FL It's interactive. There's private couple chat time. It lasts 10-weeks. It's FREE! DM for more details.

My husband and I love to jet-ski. Most weekends you'll find us on the ICW spotting dolphins, hanging with friends on the sand bar, and catching live music vibes at local waterside restaurants.

But all of that came to a screeching halt.

At first, the issue was the jet ski was loosing speed. So my husband poured over some online forums to figure out the issue. We bought and installed new spark plugs, and took the jet ski for a test ride.

It didn't fix it.

He talked to a mechanic friend and they came up with some other ideas. Now it's been 3 weeks without time on the water as we wait for the parts to arrive.

While I'm not a mechanic, I do know you have to diagnose the problem before you can find a solution.

In a similar way, the cause (of your marriage and sex problems) has to be accurately identified before you can find the most helpful solution.

Improving your communication is always helpful but not necessarily the answer every time.

In this week’s video, I answer the question: Is it a marriage problem or a sex problem?

Learn what the difference is, why it matters, and a first step you can take today.

Link in bio.
#ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #IntimacyInMarriage #SexInMarriage

My husband and I love to jet-ski. Most weekends you'll find us on the ICW spotting dolphins, hanging with friends on the sand bar, and catching live music vibes at local waterside restaurants. But all of that came to a screeching halt. At first, the issue was the jet ski was loosing speed. So my husband poured over some online forums to figure out the issue. We bought and installed new spark plugs, and took the jet ski for a test ride. It didn't fix it. He talked to a mechanic friend and they came up with some other ideas. Now it's been 3 weeks without time on the water as we wait for the parts to arrive. While I'm not a mechanic, I do know you have to diagnose the problem before you can find a solution. In a similar way, the cause (of your marriage and sex problems) has to be accurately identified before you can find the most helpful solution. Improving your communication is always helpful but not necessarily the answer every time. In this week’s video, I answer the question: Is it a marriage problem or a sex problem? Learn what the difference is, why it matters, and a first step you can take today. Link in bio. #ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #IntimacyInMarriage #SexInMarriage

When you identify the cause of the problem, you are able to treat it faster and better. #marriagehelp #limitlessintimacy #sexandmarriage

When you identify the cause of the problem, you are able to treat it faster and better. #marriagehelp #limitlessintimacy #sexandmarriage

Let’s be real. There was nothing glamorous about it.

Through the cold, threat of motion sickness, and fog for -50 miles out at sea- the whole experience could have gone south at any moment.

There was a very real chance that even after all of this effort and perseverance, we would never see a single, solitary whale.

Those are tough odds.

You have to know you really want something to stay motivated and committed. You have to have already decided, that you are 'all in' and willing to do whatever it takes.

That may sound like heavy language to describe a bucket list trip to Maine and a day of a whale watching.

So let’s see how whale watching is like something else that requires motivation, commitment, and a perseverance, so strong that even the fog of confusion can’t stop you.

Talking. About. Sex.

Yep, these are the similar things-

-In delicate talks, it takes a lot of effort to get to the starting place.

-In marriage, you could have your best communication skills at hand and some big distraction will interfere.

-When navigating touchy subjects like sex, if you don’t see immediate results you may doubt that your talk is working.

-While trying to communicate all the detailed things like sex drives, preferences, and past hurts… if you don’t stay with it through the fog and confusion, you might miss seeing the benefits.

I believe that if you keep your vision fresh (successful open talks about sex), you will be so relieved and pleased when it goes well.

If you want to know why talking about sex even when married is so difficult and the number one thing to change that, you can watch this week’s video.

The link is in the comments.

If this is an ongoing issue and your marriage, and you are ready for a change, send me a DM and we can talk about how to make a difference in your marriage.

Let’s be real. There was nothing glamorous about it. Through the cold, threat of motion sickness, and fog for -50 miles out at sea- the whole experience could have gone south at any moment. There was a very real chance that even after all of this effort and perseverance, we would never see a single, solitary whale. Those are tough odds. You have to know you really want something to stay motivated and committed. You have to have already decided, that you are 'all in' and willing to do whatever it takes. That may sound like heavy language to describe a bucket list trip to Maine and a day of a whale watching. So let’s see how whale watching is like something else that requires motivation, commitment, and a perseverance, so strong that even the fog of confusion can’t stop you. Talking. About. Sex. Yep, these are the similar things- -In delicate talks, it takes a lot of effort to get to the starting place. -In marriage, you could have your best communication skills at hand and some big distraction will interfere. -When navigating touchy subjects like sex, if you don’t see immediate results you may doubt that your talk is working. -While trying to communicate all the detailed things like sex drives, preferences, and past hurts… if you don’t stay with it through the fog and confusion, you might miss seeing the benefits. I believe that if you keep your vision fresh (successful open talks about sex), you will be so relieved and pleased when it goes well. If you want to know why talking about sex even when married is so difficult and the number one thing to change that, you can watch this week’s video. The link is in the comments. If this is an ongoing issue and your marriage, and you are ready for a change, send me a DM and we can talk about how to make a difference in your marriage.

Our friend was singing tonight! So much fun! Local flavor! #JaxBeach #wedofun #dateyourmate #marriagetips

Our friend was singing tonight! So much fun! Local flavor! #JaxBeach #wedofun #dateyourmate #marriagetips

Have you ever gone away for a fabulous vacation?

Our recent trip to Maine was absolutely amazing.

We loved whale watching and meandering down the coast to explore colorful harbors.

But the food… it deserves its own category (especially our friend’s private dinner!!)

We tried lobster and blueberries in more new ways than I thought possible.

And now- I need to get back to my non-splurge type of eating. I need to revamp my healthy food habits.

Rebuilding a lifestyle of good-for-you choices doesn’t happen automatically.

You have to find the adaptations that work well for you and a starting place to make it realistic.

But here’s the thing, rebuilding your intimacy after emotional disconnection and sexual hurt also requires a starting place.

I think a couple needs to be friends and actually enjoy being together before they will ever want to work on their marriage.

That’s why I encourage small acts of kindness to begin rebuilding.

When you start by refilling your Love tank (like with Love Languages), you’re creating a foundation that says, I want the best for you.

That way you’re on the same side and no one is the enemy.

Would you like to know all five steps that I recommend to rebuild intimacy?

That’s what I’m sharing in this week’s video.

I promise they include ways to have fun as well as practical tips to talk about sex.

The goal is for couples to start reconnecting way before they get to the bedroom so they genuinely feel closer.

Drop a heart in the comments (or send a DM) and I’ll share the link with you.

Have you ever gone away for a fabulous vacation? Our recent trip to Maine was absolutely amazing. We loved whale watching and meandering down the coast to explore colorful harbors. But the food… it deserves its own category (especially our friend’s private dinner!!) We tried lobster and blueberries in more new ways than I thought possible. And now- I need to get back to my non-splurge type of eating. I need to revamp my healthy food habits. Rebuilding a lifestyle of good-for-you choices doesn’t happen automatically. You have to find the adaptations that work well for you and a starting place to make it realistic. But here’s the thing, rebuilding your intimacy after emotional disconnection and sexual hurt also requires a starting place. I think a couple needs to be friends and actually enjoy being together before they will ever want to work on their marriage. That’s why I encourage small acts of kindness to begin rebuilding. When you start by refilling your Love tank (like with Love Languages), you’re creating a foundation that says, I want the best for you. That way you’re on the same side and no one is the enemy. Would you like to know all five steps that I recommend to rebuild intimacy? That’s what I’m sharing in this week’s video. I promise they include ways to have fun as well as practical tips to talk about sex. The goal is for couples to start reconnecting way before they get to the bedroom so they genuinely feel closer. Drop a heart in the comments (or send a DM) and I’ll share the link with you.

I enjoy a great romance and I’m happy for a beautiful love story. But… I always look deeper. What do you need to have staying power? How do you build a connection based on trust? Do you know how to have fun and actually want to be together? Do you have a plan for intentionally loving? Use this as a reminder to strengthen your marriage. Plan a date night. Surprise your spouse with a personal loving gesture. Be kind in small ways that are consistent. Eph 4:32 #faithandsex #limitlessintimacy #christianmarriage #dateyourmate

I enjoy a great romance and I’m happy for a beautiful love story. But… I always look deeper. What do you need to have staying power? How do you build a connection based on trust? Do you know how to have fun and actually want to be together? Do you have a plan for intentionally loving? Use this as a reminder to strengthen your marriage. Plan a date night. Surprise your spouse with a personal loving gesture. Be kind in small ways that are consistent. Eph 4:32 #faithandsex #limitlessintimacy #christianmarriage #dateyourmate

Don’t let the fog of confusion or frustration stop you! Having those tough talks is worth it for a greater connection in your marriage. #limitlessintimacy #marriedsex #christianmarriage

Don’t let the fog of confusion or frustration stop you! Having those tough talks is worth it for a greater connection in your marriage. #limitlessintimacy #marriedsex #christianmarriage

✨ “When sex feels like a chore…” ✨
You’re not alone in feeling that way. Many women carry pressure, shame, or even pain that makes intimacy feel heavy instead of holy.

But healing is possible. ? You can rebuild trust with your body, release the pressure, and discover that intimacy can feel safe, peaceful, and joyful again.

? New video: When Sex Feels Like a Chore | How to Heal Your Body & Reconnect
? Link in bio to watch!

#ChristianMarriage #IntimacyHealing #PermissionToEnjoy #MarriageHelp #FaithAndMarriage

✨ “When sex feels like a chore…” ✨ You’re not alone in feeling that way. Many women carry pressure, shame, or even pain that makes intimacy feel heavy instead of holy. But healing is possible. 💕 You can rebuild trust with your body, release the pressure, and discover that intimacy can feel safe, peaceful, and joyful again. 🎥 New video: When Sex Feels Like a Chore | How to Heal Your Body & Reconnect 👉 Link in bio to watch! #ChristianMarriage #IntimacyHealing #PermissionToEnjoy #MarriageHelp #FaithAndMarriage

What a fun adventure, to explore new harbors every day! So glad I get to do this with my favorite travel partner for life!

What a fun adventure, to explore new harbors every day! So glad I get to do this with my favorite travel partner for life!

Whale Watching, Sunset Sailing and lots of Lobsta’ Eating!!

Whale Watching, Sunset Sailing and lots of Lobsta’ Eating!!

Thank You for helping me hit 250 videos! What a milestone (and a lot of hairstyles.)
I’m happy to reclaim God’s truth for sexual wholeness in marriage!
Check out the latest video- If sex feels wrong, start here! Link in bio.

Thank You for helping me hit 250 videos! What a milestone (and a lot of hairstyles.) I’m happy to reclaim God’s truth for sexual wholeness in marriage! Check out the latest video- If sex feels wrong, start here! Link in bio.

Know when you need to shift from tension to openness and how to do it easily. #marriagehelp #christianmarriage #limitlessintimacy #sexandmarriage #sexualwholeness

Know when you need to shift from tension to openness and how to do it easily. #marriagehelp #christianmarriage #limitlessintimacy #sexandmarriage #sexualwholeness

Is a healthy sex life a part of the agreement you made when you got married? #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #sexandmarriage

Is a healthy sex life a part of the agreement you made when you got married? #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #sexandmarriage

What if the reason sex feels off…
isn’t because something’s wrong with you—
but because of what you were 'unknowingly' taught to believe?

Messages like:
❌ “Sex is just for men”
❌ “Desire is dirty”
❌ “Your body isn’t yours anymore”
❌ Silence = shame

These hidden beliefs shape how we show up in marriage, whether we realize it or not.

? In Episode 1 of Permission to Enjoy Intimacy, we’re uncovering the roots of your view of sex and why it still matters today.

? Watch now on YouTube: [link in bio]
? Request to be on the guide Waitlist: [comment WAITLIST]

You were never meant to carry shame into the bedroom.
Let’s replace the lies with truth that brings freedom.

#PermissionToEnjoy #ChristianWife #BiblicalIntimacy #FaithAndSex #HealingFromShame #ChristianMarriage

What if the reason sex feels off… isn’t because something’s wrong with you— but because of what you were 'unknowingly' taught to believe? Messages like: ❌ “Sex is just for men” ❌ “Desire is dirty” ❌ “Your body isn’t yours anymore” ❌ Silence = shame These hidden beliefs shape how we show up in marriage, whether we realize it or not. 🎥 In Episode 1 of Permission to Enjoy Intimacy, we’re uncovering the roots of your view of sex and why it still matters today. 👉 Watch now on YouTube: [link in bio] 📘 Request to be on the guide Waitlist: [comment WAITLIST] You were never meant to carry shame into the bedroom. Let’s replace the lies with truth that brings freedom. #PermissionToEnjoy #ChristianWife #BiblicalIntimacy #FaithAndSex #HealingFromShame #ChristianMarriage

Answer these questions to find ways to enjoy intimacy in your marriage more! #marriagehelp #christianmarriage #limitlessintimacy #intimacyinmarriage

Answer these questions to find ways to enjoy intimacy in your marriage more! #marriagehelp #christianmarriage #limitlessintimacy #intimacyinmarriage

Please help! Which title is the most inviting? {It's a brand new resource for Christian wives to find more joy in intimacy. }

? An affair exposed on social media.
We watched. Judged. Shared.
But what if it’s not just their story?
What if it’s a mirror? ??

This new video dives deep into:
✨ Why we’re drawn to scandal
✨ What it reveals about our own hearts
✨ How God responds when we drift
✨ What to do when you feel unseen or tempted

Before an affair happens in the body, it starts in the heart.
Let this viral moment wake us up—instead of just entertain us.

? Watch now: {see below}
? Link in bio

#AffairExposed #ChristianMarriage #EmotionalAffair #FaithAndRelationships #HealingAfterBetrayal #GodSeesYou #MarriageMatters

🚨 An affair exposed on social media. We watched. Judged. Shared. But what if it’s not just their story? What if it’s a mirror? 👀💔 This new video dives deep into: ✨ Why we’re drawn to scandal ✨ What it reveals about our own hearts ✨ How God responds when we drift ✨ What to do when you feel unseen or tempted Before an affair happens in the body, it starts in the heart. Let this viral moment wake us up—instead of just entertain us. 🎥 Watch now: {see below} 📌 Link in bio #AffairExposed #ChristianMarriage #EmotionalAffair #FaithAndRelationships #HealingAfterBetrayal #GodSeesYou #MarriageMatters

It’s not something I talk about ever… But it’s something that bothers me always. A client said, "I don’t like my body and that shows up most in the bedroom." If you’ve ever felt uncomfortable in your own skin—even with your spouse who loves you—this conversation is for you. We’re talking about the hidden impact of body image struggles in Christian marriage: 💔 The shame that keeps you from enjoying sex 💬 Why it’s so hard to talk about it 🙏 What God really says about your body ❤️ And how to begin healing and renew connection You are not alone, and you are not broken. 📺 Watch the full video: [see YouTube link below] #ChristianMarriage #BodyImageAndIntimacy #MarriageHelp #OvercomingShame #FaithAndSex #SexualWholenessRevival

Sex is holy, not because it’s hidden or taboo.

Sex is holy, when expressed the way God designed, within a covenant marriage.

It becomes a way to reflect:

God’s faithfulness (exclusive commitment)

God’s unity (becoming “one flesh”)

God’s delight (pleasure is His idea!)

God’s creative power (life-giving love)

Even in the ordinary, messy, real-world experiences of sex in marriage (awkward moments, learning curves, body insecurities, mismatched drives, adapting in aging) there’s a sacred invitation to grow in love, grace, and intimacy that honors God.

#heavenonearth #holinessinsex #covenantmarriage #Godsdesign #realChristianmarriage #spiritsoulandbodyoneness

Sex is holy, not because it’s hidden or taboo. Sex is holy, when expressed the way God designed, within a covenant marriage. It becomes a way to reflect: God’s faithfulness (exclusive commitment) God’s unity (becoming “one flesh”) God’s delight (pleasure is His idea!) God’s creative power (life-giving love) Even in the ordinary, messy, real-world experiences of sex in marriage (awkward moments, learning curves, body insecurities, mismatched drives, adapting in aging) there’s a sacred invitation to grow in love, grace, and intimacy that honors God. #heavenonearth #holinessinsex #covenantmarriage #Godsdesign #realChristianmarriage #spiritsoulandbodyoneness

If God designed sexual intimacy in marriage to be sacred (to be set apart for a divine purpose), that re-enacts our covenant with Him and each other, brings heaven to earth, and shows us how His love, trust, and unity can dwell in the physical world ... then, what does sex look like when it is NOT being considered sacred? #sacredsex #holysex #Christianmarriage #heavenonearth #unityinmarriage #covenantmarriage #yestoGodsgoodness

If God designed sexual intimacy in marriage to be sacred (to be set apart for a divine purpose), that re-enacts our covenant with Him and each other, brings heaven to earth, and shows us how His love, trust, and unity can dwell in the physical world ... then, what does sex look like when it is NOT being considered sacred? #sacredsex #holysex #Christianmarriage #heavenonearth #unityinmarriage #covenantmarriage #yestoGodsgoodness

“This isn’t what I thought sex in marriage would be…”

Have you ever felt that?
You waited. You did it “right.” You thought marriage would bring intimacy, connection, and amazing sex.
But instead... it feels confusing. Awkward. Maybe even disappointing.

And when your spouse says, “This isn’t what I expected,” it cuts deep.

The truth? You’re not alone.
And you’re not broken.
Christian couples struggle with this more often than you think—but no one talks about it.

? Until now.

? In our newest video, we’re sharing how to navigate mismatched sexual expectations in marriage—and how to move from disappointment to deeper connection.

? Let’s talk about:
• Why sex feels off—even when you followed the rules
• How to handle emotional and sexual disconnect
• What God really intended for your intimate life
• And how to start the healing conversation today

? Watch now — link in bio
? Get your free guide: 10 Tips to Start Tough Talks

You don’t have to stay stuck in silence or shame.
There’s a better way forward—together. ?

#ChristianMarriage #SexInMarriage #MarriageDisappointment #ChristianSexEducation #LimitlessIntimacy #FaithAndSex #MarriageHelp #SacredIntimacy #MismatchedDesires

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“This isn’t what I thought sex in marriage would be…” Have you ever felt that? You waited. You did it “right.” You thought marriage would bring intimacy, connection, and amazing sex. But instead... it feels confusing. Awkward. Maybe even disappointing. And when your spouse says, “This isn’t what I expected,” it cuts deep. The truth? You’re not alone. And you’re not broken. Christian couples struggle with this more often than you think—but no one talks about it. 🛑 Until now. 🎥 In our newest video, we’re sharing how to navigate mismatched sexual expectations in marriage—and how to move from disappointment to deeper connection. 💬 Let’s talk about: • Why sex feels off—even when you followed the rules • How to handle emotional and sexual disconnect • What God really intended for your intimate life • And how to start the healing conversation today 📲 Watch now — link in bio 📥 Get your free guide: 10 Tips to Start Tough Talks You don’t have to stay stuck in silence or shame. There’s a better way forward—together. 💗 #ChristianMarriage #SexInMarriage #MarriageDisappointment #ChristianSexEducation #LimitlessIntimacy #FaithAndSex #MarriageHelp #SacredIntimacy #MismatchedDesires Would you like matching image text or carousels to go with this post (e.g. slide 1: “W

Disappointment is real, when things don’t go as expected. Find ways to talk it out. Don’t stay hurt or shut down. Get on the same page.

Disappointment is real, when things don’t go as expected. Find ways to talk it out. Don’t stay hurt or shut down. Get on the same page.

When you show up, in love with all the wonderfulness God placed in you, you fill your relationships with His love, too. That's a good thing because His love is LIMITLESS. #limitlessintimacy #marriagetips #Christianmarriage #faithandintimacy

When you show up, in love with all the wonderfulness God placed in you, you fill your relationships with His love, too. That's a good thing because His love is LIMITLESS. #limitlessintimacy #marriagetips #Christianmarriage #faithandintimacy

Small town USA! Enjoying all the simple beauty!

Small town USA! Enjoying all the simple beauty!

Never did I ever think I’d become a Christian Sex Educator.
Honestly? I was the least likely person.

But after walking through sexual shame, painful intimacy, a divorce, and a remarriage with physical and emotional struggles—I had to start asking hard questions.

? What does God really say about sex?
? Why didn’t the church teach us more than just what not to do?
? Is healing even possible?

My story is real, raw, and filled with hope—and I just shared it in a new video. If you’ve ever felt confused, ashamed, or stuck when it comes to sex in marriage... you’re not alone.

✨ There’s a new story waiting for you. One of wholeness, freedom, and joy.

? Watch now [link in comments]
#ChristianSexEducator #SexualHealing #FaithAndSex #ShameFreeSex #ChristianMarriageHelp #SexAndFaith #LimitlessIntimacy #HealingJourney

Never did I ever think I’d become a Christian Sex Educator. Honestly? I was the least likely person. But after walking through sexual shame, painful intimacy, a divorce, and a remarriage with physical and emotional struggles—I had to start asking hard questions. 💬 What does God really say about sex? 💔 Why didn’t the church teach us more than just what not to do? 💡 Is healing even possible? My story is real, raw, and filled with hope—and I just shared it in a new video. If you’ve ever felt confused, ashamed, or stuck when it comes to sex in marriage... you’re not alone. ✨ There’s a new story waiting for you. One of wholeness, freedom, and joy. 🎥 Watch now [link in comments] #ChristianSexEducator #SexualHealing #FaithAndSex #ShameFreeSex #ChristianMarriageHelp #SexAndFaith #LimitlessIntimacy #HealingJourney

What's the most unusual thing you've done to show love to your spouse?

#marriedforlife #happymarriagetips #showyourspousehowimportanttheyare #Christianmarriage #limitlessintimacy #sexualwholenessinmarriage

What's the most unusual thing you've done to show love to your spouse? #marriedforlife #happymarriagetips #showyourspousehowimportanttheyare #Christianmarriage #limitlessintimacy #sexualwholenessinmarriage

Heading for a BIG 90th Birthday celebration!

Heading for a BIG 90th Birthday celebration!

What's ONE thing you 'learned' about marriage as a child that you found out was COMPLETELY different than what you thought?

#marriageasseenbyachild #funnymarriagelife #christianmarriage #marriagegoals

What's ONE thing you 'learned' about marriage as a child that you found out was COMPLETELY different than what you thought? #marriageasseenbyachild #funnymarriagelife #christianmarriage #marriagegoals

3 signs your marriage needs a tune-up. #christianmarriage #marriagegoals #lastingmarriage

3 signs your marriage needs a tune-up. #christianmarriage #marriagegoals #lastingmarriage

You keep saying yes… but something feels off. ?

You love your husband.

You want to honor God.

But sex has started to feel like a duty instead of a connection.

? In this new video, we’re talking about what really happens when you have sex out of obligation, fear, or spiritual guilt—and what it’s doing to your heart, body, and marriage long-term.

? You’ll hear:

Why you’re not overthinking it

What Scripture actually says about mutual intimacy

How to begin healing when you’ve lost yourself in saying yes

? Watch now + get free resources at limitlessintimacy.com

You matter. Your voice matters.

And God’s design for intimacy includes you too. ?

#ObligatedSex #ChristianMarriage #FeelingPressured #EmotionalIntimacy #MarriageHelp #SexAndGuilt #GodlyIntimacy #LimitlessIntimacy #ChristianWife

You keep saying yes… but something feels off. 💔 You love your husband. You want to honor God. But sex has started to feel like a duty instead of a connection. 👉 In this new video, we’re talking about what really happens when you have sex out of obligation, fear, or spiritual guilt—and what it’s doing to your heart, body, and marriage long-term. 💡 You’ll hear: Why you’re not overthinking it What Scripture actually says about mutual intimacy How to begin healing when you’ve lost yourself in saying yes 🎥 Watch now + get free resources at limitlessintimacy.com You matter. Your voice matters. And God’s design for intimacy includes you too. 💗 #ObligatedSex #ChristianMarriage #FeelingPressured #EmotionalIntimacy #MarriageHelp #SexAndGuilt #GodlyIntimacy #LimitlessIntimacy #ChristianWife

Is it wrong to say no to your husband when you don’t want sex? ?

You love him. You love God.
But when there’s no emotional connection, saying “yes” can feel like you’re losing yourself.

In our new video, we unpack:
? What pressured sex does to your heart
? What the Bible really says about consent
? How to reclaim intimacy without guilt

? Watch now + get free resources at limitlessintimacy.com

You’re not overthinking it.
Your voice matters. Your heart matters. ?

#ChristianMarriage #EmotionalIntimacy #GodlySex #FeelingPressured #LimitlessIntimacy #MarriageHelp #ChristianWife

Is it wrong to say no to your husband when you don’t want sex? 💭 You love him. You love God. But when there’s no emotional connection, saying “yes” can feel like you’re losing yourself. In our new video, we unpack: 💔 What pressured sex does to your heart 📖 What the Bible really says about consent 💡 How to reclaim intimacy without guilt 🎥 Watch now + get free resources at limitlessintimacy.com You’re not overthinking it. Your voice matters. Your heart matters. 💗 #ChristianMarriage #EmotionalIntimacy #GodlySex #FeelingPressured #LimitlessIntimacy #MarriageHelp #ChristianWife

Sometimes you're just feelin' the love. That makes it fun! Other times you're choosing to love. That makes it last.

I hope you're in you're always in your element when love feels intentional. #marriagegoals #loveisachoice #lastinglove #Ichooseyou

Sometimes you're just feelin' the love. That makes it fun! Other times you're choosing to love. That makes it last. I hope you're in you're always in your element when love feels intentional. #marriagegoals #loveisachoice #lastinglove #Ichooseyou

When you stay silent in your marriage you keep your spouse in the dark. Even if it’s a delicate topic, find a way to talk about it. Truth lives in the light.

When you stay silent in your marriage you keep your spouse in the dark. Even if it’s a delicate topic, find a way to talk about it. Truth lives in the light.

“The church didn’t prepare me for a healthy sex life.”

If you’ve felt this—you're not alone. But blame won’t bring healing.
? It keeps you stuck.
? You can reclaim your voice, your joy, and God’s design for intimacy in marriage.

? Watch my story + how you can start healing too:
[see video link below]

#ChristianMarriage #SexAndTheChurch #FaithAndIntimacy #SexualHealing #MarriageGodsWay

“The church didn’t prepare me for a healthy sex life.” If you’ve felt this—you're not alone. But blame won’t bring healing. 💥 It keeps you stuck. 💗 You can reclaim your voice, your joy, and God’s design for intimacy in marriage. 🎥 Watch my story + how you can start healing too: [see video link below] #ChristianMarriage #SexAndTheChurch #FaithAndIntimacy #SexualHealing #MarriageGodsWay

Romance doesn't have to be expensive. It's capturing an everyday moment and making it special, so your spouse feels uniquely loved!

#IntimacyInMarriage #MarriageGodsWay #RomanceinMarriage #HealthyChristianMarriage

Romance doesn't have to be expensive. It's capturing an everyday moment and making it special, so your spouse feels uniquely loved! #IntimacyInMarriage #MarriageGodsWay #RomanceinMarriage #HealthyChristianMarriage

? New Video: “Sex Predictable? 5 Surprising Ways to Make Married Sex Fun Again”

Does your sex life feel stuck on repeat? You love each other, but let’s be real, intimacy in marriage can get... routine.

That doesn’t mean something’s wrong. It just means it’s time to reconnect with fresh intention. ❤️

In this video, I’m sharing 5 surprising (and totally do-able) ways to bring back romance, playfulness, and deep connection without pressure, blame, or wild expectations.

✨ It’s not about needing something new because your partner isn’t enough
? It’s about speaking up, being intentional, and rediscovering the joy in each other.

? Watch now & let your marriage feel exciting again: [link below]

#MarriageIntimacy #FaithAndSex #ChristianMarriage #RealTalk #MarriedLife #SexInMarriage #EmotionalConnection #RomanticMarriage #MarriageHelp #SexualWholeness

📹 New Video: “Sex Predictable? 5 Surprising Ways to Make Married Sex Fun Again” Does your sex life feel stuck on repeat? You love each other, but let’s be real, intimacy in marriage can get... routine. That doesn’t mean something’s wrong. It just means it’s time to reconnect with fresh intention. ❤️ In this video, I’m sharing 5 surprising (and totally do-able) ways to bring back romance, playfulness, and deep connection without pressure, blame, or wild expectations. ✨ It’s not about needing something new because your partner isn’t enough 💬 It’s about speaking up, being intentional, and rediscovering the joy in each other. 🎥 Watch now & let your marriage feel exciting again: [link below] #MarriageIntimacy #FaithAndSex #ChristianMarriage #RealTalk #MarriedLife #SexInMarriage #EmotionalConnection #RomanticMarriage #MarriageHelp #SexualWholeness

Trust isn't automatic. It's earned over time. Though it requires being intentional, it's worth it. #marriagegoals #trueintimacy #godlymarriage #sexualwholeness

Trust isn't automatic. It's earned over time. Though it requires being intentional, it's worth it. #marriagegoals #trueintimacy #godlymarriage #sexualwholeness

Steps to take if your sex life has grown predictable in your marriage- have gentle talks with your spouse about wanting more because it’s ultimately good for your marriage, practice romance outside the bedroom, and share initiation so you each feel wanted.

Steps to take if your sex life has grown predictable in your marriage- have gentle talks with your spouse about wanting more because it’s ultimately good for your marriage, practice romance outside the bedroom, and share initiation so you each feel wanted.

? “Why doesn’t she want sex anymore?”

If you’ve ever asked yourself that question or felt the weight of it in your relationship, you’re not alone.

This video isn’t about blame.
It’s about what’s really going on when desire fades…

? Why pressure can shut her down
? Why repeated asking actually kills attraction
? What your needs are really saying
? And how to talk about sex without shutting each other down

You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t doomed.
But intimacy can’t thrive where there’s confusion and disconnection.

? Watch now: Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore
? [Link below]
? Tag someone who needs this or save it for later.

#MarriageHelp #ChristianMarriage #SexAndMarriage #EmotionalIntimacy #FaithAndSexuality #MarriageAdvice #HealthyDesire #SexualWholeness #IntimacyMatters

💔 “Why doesn’t she want sex anymore?” If you’ve ever asked yourself that question or felt the weight of it in your relationship, you’re not alone. This video isn’t about blame. It’s about what’s really going on when desire fades… 👉 Why pressure can shut her down 👉 Why repeated asking actually kills attraction 👉 What your needs are really saying 👉 And how to talk about sex without shutting each other down You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t doomed. But intimacy can’t thrive where there’s confusion and disconnection. 🎥 Watch now: Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore 🔗 [Link below] 💬 Tag someone who needs this or save it for later. #MarriageHelp #ChristianMarriage #SexAndMarriage #EmotionalIntimacy #FaithAndSexuality #MarriageAdvice #HealthyDesire #SexualWholeness #IntimacyMatters

What causes pressure in your marriage?

What causes pressure in your marriage?

? Real talk: Great sex doesn’t start in the bedroom.

If you want a sex life that feels connected, free, and joyfully faith-filled, this is for you.t something from you.”

Whether you’re newly married or just wanting to reconnect, building up to intimacy starts long before the lights go out.

?️ In my latest video, we’re talking about:
✨ How to create sexual anticipation throughout the day
? Affection without pressure or agenda
? The power of flirting and fun in marriage
? And why intimacy is about more than just the physical

If you want a sex life that feels connected, free, and joyfully faith-filled—this is for you.

? Drop a ❤️ if this is something you’re working on in your marriage, too.
? Drop a ❤️ if this is something you’re working on in your marriage too.

#MarriageMatters #FaithAndSex #IntimacyGodsWay #NewlywedLife #SexStartsBeforeTheBedroom

💬 Real talk: Great sex doesn’t start in the bedroom. If you want a sex life that feels connected, free, and joyfully faith-filled, this is for you.t something from you.” Whether you’re newly married or just wanting to reconnect, building up to intimacy starts long before the lights go out. 🛋️ In my latest video, we’re talking about: ✨ How to create sexual anticipation throughout the day 💞 Affection without pressure or agenda 😏 The power of flirting and fun in marriage 🙌 And why intimacy is about more than just the physical If you want a sex life that feels connected, free, and joyfully faith-filled—this is for you. 👇 Drop a ❤️ if this is something you’re working on in your marriage, too. 👇 Drop a ❤️ if this is something you’re working on in your marriage too. #MarriageMatters #FaithAndSex #IntimacyGodsWay #NewlywedLife #SexStartsBeforeTheBedroom

No toe-touching at bedtime? Just cold shoulders and silence?

That invisible wall doesn’t just block emotional connection—it shuts down sexual intimacy, too.

For over 10 years, I’ve helped thousands of couples move from distance to closeness, where they feel heard, wanted, and free to enjoy a marriage that’s emotionally and sexually fulfilling.

Because real intimacy isn’t forced… it flows when you’re truly connected. ?❤️?

Know someone who needs this? Tag them or share this post.

No toe-touching at bedtime? Just cold shoulders and silence? That invisible wall doesn’t just block emotional connection—it shuts down sexual intimacy, too. For over 10 years, I’ve helped thousands of couples move from distance to closeness, where they feel heard, wanted, and free to enjoy a marriage that’s emotionally and sexually fulfilling. Because real intimacy isn’t forced… it flows when you’re truly connected. 💬❤️🔥 Know someone who needs this? Tag them or share this post.

It’s time for an honest talk about frequency.

It’s time for an honest talk about frequency.

Shift to a positive mental sexual attitude.

Shift to a positive mental sexual attitude.

? Newly Married? This Might Surprise You About Sex…

You love each other. You said “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…
✨He’s always ready for sex.
✨You need a little more time to get there.

Sound familiar? ?

In our newest video, we're talking about something that surprises a lot of newlyweds:
Different sex drives. Different timing. Different needs.

? We cover: ❤️ Why desire often shows up differently for husbands and wives
? What to do when you're not “in the mood” at the same time
?️ An empowering tool to help you grow arousal together, not apart

? Watch now and grab “The Arousal Pathway” in the video description!
? [See link]

You're not broken. You're just learning—and that’s exactly where God meets you. ?

You love each other. You said, “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…iageHelp #RealTalk

💍 Newly Married? This Might Surprise You About Sex… You love each other. You said “I do.” And now you’re discovering that… ✨He’s always ready for sex. ✨You need a little more time to get there. Sound familiar? 😅 In our newest video, we're talking about something that surprises a lot of newlyweds: Different sex drives. Different timing. Different needs. 🎥 We cover: ❤️ Why desire often shows up differently for husbands and wives 🧠 What to do when you're not “in the mood” at the same time 🛠️ An empowering tool to help you grow arousal together, not apart 💬 Watch now and grab “The Arousal Pathway” in the video description! 🔗 [See link] You're not broken. You're just learning—and that’s exactly where God meets you. 💖 You love each other. You said, “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…iageHelp #RealTalk

To get on the same page for intimacy, we don’t want pressure we want an invitation.

To get on the same page for intimacy, we don’t want pressure we want an invitation.

Thank you @newlifejax for the GREAT time together as couples to tune-up our marriages.

Thank you @newlifejax for the GREAT time together as couples to tune-up our marriages.

Does your marriage need MORE fun?

Does your marriage need MORE fun?

? BUSY COUPLES WITH FULL PLATES—THIS ONE’S FOR YOU! ?

Between career goals, meetings, errands, school drop-offs, and trying to remember if you already drank that cup of coffee… your relationship can quietly slip into survival mode. ?‍??

But here’s the truth: there’s one small habit most couples let slide after marriage—and especially once kids and careers take over—and it’s one of the biggest keys to real connection and lasting intimacy. ❤️

? I’m going LIVE to uncover what this habit is, why it matters way more than you think, and how to bring it back—without needing hours of free time or a couples' retreat in the woods. (We wish, right? ?)

✨ You’ll walk away with fresh, doable tools that fit into your real, busy life
? Discover the surprising ways this habit boosts connection, teamwork, and even playfulness
? Rekindle what’s been missing—and feel more like you two again

? Friday, April 11, at 12:00 noon EST
? Intimacy Made Simple for Christian Marriage Facebook Group

Tag your partner or a fellow power couple who could use a spark. This is your invitation to reconnect—without adding more to your to-do list. ?✨

💥 BUSY COUPLES WITH FULL PLATES—THIS ONE’S FOR YOU! 💥 Between career goals, meetings, errands, school drop-offs, and trying to remember if you already drank that cup of coffee… your relationship can quietly slip into survival mode. 😵‍💼👶 But here’s the truth: there’s one small habit most couples let slide after marriage—and especially once kids and careers take over—and it’s one of the biggest keys to real connection and lasting intimacy. ❤️ 👉 I’m going LIVE to uncover what this habit is, why it matters way more than you think, and how to bring it back—without needing hours of free time or a couples' retreat in the woods. (We wish, right? 😂) ✨ You’ll walk away with fresh, doable tools that fit into your real, busy life 💡 Discover the surprising ways this habit boosts connection, teamwork, and even playfulness 🔥 Rekindle what’s been missing—and feel more like you two again 📅 Friday, April 11, at 12:00 noon EST 📍 Intimacy Made Simple for Christian Marriage Facebook Group Tag your partner or a fellow power couple who could use a spark. This is your invitation to reconnect—without adding more to your to-do list. 💑✨ "The ONE Habit Couples Stop Doing - Your Marriage Misses It!" #BusyButConnected #MarriageInTheRealWorld #WorkingParents #IntimacyMadeSimple #LivestreamLove

Learn how to Build and Keep the connection in Your Marriage!

Learn how to Build and Keep the connection in Your Marriage!

Can you make your marriage stronger one cup of coffee at a time?

Can you make your marriage stronger one cup of coffee at a time?

? New Video: Why Does Sex Feel Like So Much Work? ??

As we age, physical changes, mismatched desire, and lack of communication can make intimacy feel more like work than connection. ? But it doesn’t have to be that way!

In my latest video, I’m breaking down:

✨ Why sex can feel harder as we get older
? How to talk to your partner about intimacy struggles
? Ways to reignite passion and emotional connection

? Watch now: [See Link Below]

And if you’re ready for deeper support, relationship coaching can help you rebuild trust, communication, and desire. DM me or check out my coaching services to get started. ?

#IntimacyMatters #MarriageAdvice #ReigniteTheSpark #RelationshipCoaching #CommunicationIsKey #MarriageHelp #SexAndAging #CouplesGoals

📢 New Video: Why Does Sex Feel Like So Much Work? 💭💔 As we age, physical changes, mismatched desire, and lack of communication can make intimacy feel more like work than connection. 😞 But it doesn’t have to be that way! In my latest video, I’m breaking down: ✨ Why sex can feel harder as we get older 💬 How to talk to your partner about intimacy struggles 🔥 Ways to reignite passion and emotional connection 👉 Watch now: [See Link Below] And if you’re ready for deeper support, relationship coaching can help you rebuild trust, communication, and desire. DM me or check out my coaching services to get started. 💕 #IntimacyMatters #MarriageAdvice #ReigniteTheSpark #RelationshipCoaching #CommunicationIsKey #MarriageHelp #SexAndAging #CouplesGoals

So happy to have my in-laws visit. We treasure their love and great wisdom.

So happy to have my in-laws visit. We treasure their love and great wisdom.

💭 "I know sex is meant for good, but I just can't enjoy it..." If you've ever felt this way, you're not alone. Many Christians struggle with guilt, shame, or negative beliefs about intimacy. But God designed sex for connection and joy in marriage! In this video, we’ll unpack: ✅ Why sex can feel “bad” even when it’s part of God’s plan ✅ How to overcome shame and negative beliefs about intimacy ✅ Biblical truths that bring freedom & joy in marriage 🎥 Watch now and find new freedom in God’s design for intimacy! 👉 [Video Link Below] #ChristianMarriage #GodsDesignForSex #MarriageIntimacy #FaithAndSex #BiblicalMarriage #OvercomingShame

Ask yourself these questions to have a thriving marriage.

Ask yourself these questions to have a thriving marriage.

Is sex too much work?

Is sex too much work?

? **Ladies, this one’s for you!** ?

Your sexual health and well-being matter—at every stage of life. Join us for a **live conversation** where you'll hear what you *need* to know sooner rather than later to improve your quality of life. ?✨

? Why taking care of your health is essential
? Potential sexual issues to be aware of
? A breakthrough personal lubricant that could change everything

? **Friday, March 7 at 12:00 pm EST**
? **Intimacy Made Simple for Christian Marriage Facebook group**

Don’t miss out! Tag a friend and **join us live** or catch the replay. ? #SexualWellBeing #WomensHealth #LiveEvent #internationalwomensday

🚨 **Ladies, this one’s for you!** 🚨 Your sexual health and well-being matter—at every stage of life. Join us for a **live conversation** where you'll hear what you *need* to know sooner rather than later to improve your quality of life. 💡✨ 🔹 Why taking care of your health is essential 🔹 Potential sexual issues to be aware of 🔹 A breakthrough personal lubricant that could change everything 📅 **Friday, March 7 at 12:00 pm EST** 📍 **Intimacy Made Simple for Christian Marriage Facebook group** Don’t miss out! Tag a friend and **join us live** or catch the replay. 💖 #SexualWellBeing #WomensHealth #LiveEvent #internationalwomensday

Are you having fun until you’re NOT?

Are you having fun until you’re NOT?

Fun day, lunch outside. Ahhhh…. Sunshine!

Fun day, lunch outside. Ahhhh…. Sunshine!

Confidential Marriage Coaching for Ministry Couples Seeking to Restore Emotional and Physical Intimacy

Marriage is a beautiful journey, but staying close takes effort. ? Many couples find themselves drifting apart due to life's demands.

This can also be true for couples in ministry who are always caring for others and may miss what's happening to

Confidential Marriage Coaching for Ministry Couples Seeking to Restore Emotional and Physical Intimacy Marriage is a beautiful journey, but staying close takes effort. 💕 Many couples find themselves drifting apart due to life's demands. This can also be true for couples in ministry who are always caring for others and may miss what's happening to "us." Your path to this place and journey to healing has unique challenges. ⛪ For Ministry Couples: 💔 The expectation to “have it all together” can feel overwhelming. 🤐 It’s hard to know who to trust with your struggles. 🔐 You need a safe, truly private space to talk. The isolation of HOW to get healed as a couple in ministry, can almost be as much to bear as the intimacy problem in the marriage. 😞 💡 There is hope! I help couples—especially those struggling silently—find healing, connection, and joy again. 📖 Start Here – Free eBook: God’s Gift to Marriage 📖 ✅ Reframes intimacy through God’s design (not cultural distortions or religious suppression). ✅ Centers on God’s goodness from Genesis 1. ✅ Brings a fresh perspective to sexual and emotional intimacy in marriage. I understand this journey personally. While leading in ministry, I faced these same struggles and I didn’t know where to go with the brokenness I felt. But God led me to a place of healing and wholeness. I’ve walked this path—and I would be honored to walk alongside you.🚶‍♂️💛 💬 Let’s talk. Reach out privately & take the first step toward renewal. 📥 Get the free eBook! See link!

Welp... I messed up this Valentine’s Day. ??

I thought I had it covered—flowers, dinner, a nice card—but somehow, it still didn’t feel right. My spouse was gracious (thankfully), but I could tell something was missing. And after some honest conversation, I realized: I’ve been thinking about love and intimacy in a way that might not actually be what my marriage needs most.

Turns out, intimacy isn’t just grand gestures once a year. It’s the little things—deep conversations, feeling truly seen and heard, showing up daily in ways that matter. So yeah... I’ve got some learning to do. ?

If you’ve ever felt this way, check out this quiz:

Welp... I messed up this Valentine’s Day. 😬💔 I thought I had it covered—flowers, dinner, a nice card—but somehow, it still didn’t feel right. My spouse was gracious (thankfully), but I could tell something was missing. And after some honest conversation, I realized: I’ve been thinking about love and intimacy in a way that might not actually be what my marriage needs most. Turns out, intimacy isn’t just grand gestures once a year. It’s the little things—deep conversations, feeling truly seen and heard, showing up daily in ways that matter. So yeah... I’ve got some learning to do. 😅 If you’ve ever felt this way, check out this quiz: "What’s Your Intimacy Type?" It might just help you understand what you—and your partner—truly need. Take it today! 👉 [link in bio] #MarriageLessons #ValentinesDayFail #GrowingTogether

May your connection be so deep you see into your spouse's soul. Happy Valentine's Day!

May your connection be so deep you see into your spouse's soul. Happy Valentine's Day!

? **Married Couples, Spill the Fun!** ?

We want to hear about the most **fun, wild, or unexpected** moments from your wedding day! ?? Did someone trip on the dance floor? A last-minute change that made everything even better? A funny speech that stole the show?

Drop your best wedding memories in the comments! ⬇️✨ #WeddingMemories #MarriedLife #SayIDoAgain #nationalmarriagewwek

💍 **Married Couples, Spill the Fun!** 🎉 We want to hear about the most **fun, wild, or unexpected** moments from your wedding day! 👰🤵 Did someone trip on the dance floor? A last-minute change that made everything even better? A funny speech that stole the show? Drop your best wedding memories in the comments! ⬇️✨ #WeddingMemories #MarriedLife #SayIDoAgain #nationalmarriagewwek

? Spicy Mistakes That Can Harm Your Marriage! ?

With Valentine’s Day approaching, many couples are looking for ways to spice up their marriage. But be careful—some “spicy” moves can actually do more harm than good! ❌ Avoid these passion-killers:

? Thinking about a former boyfriend or girlfriend while with your spouse
? Using explicit movies to stir up passion instead of real connection
? Pushing boundaries your partner isn’t comfortable with
? Trying to “spice things up” without addressing emotional intimacy first

Real passion comes from trust, communication, and genuine connection! ❤️ This Valentine’s Day, focus on what truly brings you closer.

What’s your favorite way to keep the spark alive? Drop your thoughts below! ? #ValentinesDay #MarriageTips #RealConnection

🚫 Spicy Mistakes That Can Harm Your Marriage! 🚫 With Valentine’s Day approaching, many couples are looking for ways to spice up their marriage. But be careful—some “spicy” moves can actually do more harm than good! ❌ Avoid these passion-killers: 🔥 Thinking about a former boyfriend or girlfriend while with your spouse 🔥 Using explicit movies to stir up passion instead of real connection 🔥 Pushing boundaries your partner isn’t comfortable with 🔥 Trying to “spice things up” without addressing emotional intimacy first Real passion comes from trust, communication, and genuine connection! ❤️ This Valentine’s Day, focus on what truly brings you closer. What’s your favorite way to keep the spark alive? Drop your thoughts below! 👇 #ValentinesDay #MarriageTips #RealConnection

So happy to celebrate our anniversary! This man changed my life and I’m forever grateful. We love being married!!

So happy to celebrate our anniversary! This man changed my life and I’m forever grateful. We love being married!!

Parents, are you ready to talk to your kids about sex?

Parents, are you ready to talk to your kids about sex?

3 ways to reconnect with your spouse- every single day.

3 ways to reconnect with your spouse- every single day.

If the media is your guide to great sex, you are set up for an epic fail.

Engaged, Newlywed, and Seasoned Married Couples: BUST these assumptions! It's NOT too late to turn it around.

1. You can count on sex as an overflow to a spontaneous feeling
2. Your expectations for sex stay exactly the same over the years
3. Talking about sex is never awkward after you're married
4. Sex is easy because you want the same things
5. Great sex is too hard to make happen so give up sooner rather than later

Watch this week's video. Link below.

If the media is your guide to great sex, you are set up for an epic fail. Engaged, Newlywed, and Seasoned Married Couples: BUST these assumptions! It's NOT too late to turn it around. 1. You can count on sex as an overflow to a spontaneous feeling 2. Your expectations for sex stay exactly the same over the years 3. Talking about sex is never awkward after you're married 4. Sex is easy because you want the same things 5. Great sex is too hard to make happen so give up sooner rather than later Watch this week's video. Link below.

Do you have healthy thoughts about marriage?

Do you have healthy thoughts about marriage?

If your sexual intimacy has had more of an emphasis on the physical aspect, you may be sensing a low in your connection! Why?!

Sexual intimacy was always supposed to be a spirit-soul-body encounter.

How can you make it more meaningful?

Check out this week's video.

If your sexual intimacy has had more of an emphasis on the physical aspect, you may be sensing a low in your connection! Why?! Sexual intimacy was always supposed to be a spirit-soul-body encounter. How can you make it more meaningful? Check out this week's video.

Clear out the 2024 disappointments and get ready for more love from God and fresh connections in your marriage in 2025!

Clear out the 2024 disappointments and get ready for more love from God and fresh connections in your marriage in 2025!

2024 was Ah-MAY-Zing for Limitless Intimacy! -Private Client's Marriage Transformation Celebrations -Marriage Conference Attendees' funny thanks for practical takeaways -YouTube and Social Media audience's spicy engagement -Thailand and Cambodia trafficked women's healing and freedom -Strip club girls equipped and empowered for truth and love -Love Connections and The Daily 10 curriculum breakthroughs -Sexual Wholeness Commitment expanded for Legacy ***ALL Glory to God for His Rich Blessings, Love, and Goodness!*** 2025 is set to do EVEN MORE!!! Stay tuned for: ~Brand NEW website with immediate resources! ~Brand NEW podcast with sexual healing testimonies! ~Brand NEW marriage event "Marked by Love"!

The TOP Topic of 2024 - Foreplay!!

Wives- there are 5 tips to help him understand.
Husbands- there is the formula you need (words-PLUS-touch)

Growing connection and being closer in your marriage is the ULTIMATE, most God-honoring goal you can have.

That’s the best pursuit for 2025!!

One of the ways it can happen is with more intentional sexual intimacy.

I'm not pro-sex for selfish reasons like the media portrays it.
I am pro-sex for the good God intended for marriage.

If you are NOT making healthy, sexual intimacy a priority in your marriage, there is a major red flag!

Of course, there are seasons of adjustment, give and take, health and crisis situations but...
OVERALL, you need consistent sexual intimacy for a vibrant marriage.

Don't 'have sex' to tick a box. That won't solve the issue. It could even make it worse.
Have meaningful intimate connections to grow the closeness and strengthen your bond.

This video is super practical and it respects God's gift to marriage!
Link below.

The TOP Topic of 2024 - Foreplay!! Wives- there are 5 tips to help him understand. Husbands- there is the formula you need (words-PLUS-touch) Growing connection and being closer in your marriage is the ULTIMATE, most God-honoring goal you can have. That’s the best pursuit for 2025!! One of the ways it can happen is with more intentional sexual intimacy. I'm not pro-sex for selfish reasons like the media portrays it. I am pro-sex for the good God intended for marriage. If you are NOT making healthy, sexual intimacy a priority in your marriage, there is a major red flag! Of course, there are seasons of adjustment, give and take, health and crisis situations but... OVERALL, you need consistent sexual intimacy for a vibrant marriage. Don't 'have sex' to tick a box. That won't solve the issue. It could even make it worse. Have meaningful intimate connections to grow the closeness and strengthen your bond. This video is super practical and it respects God's gift to marriage! Link below.

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas from the Michigan winter wonderland!

Merry Christmas from the Michigan winter wonderland!

Last Minute GIFT from the Heart!

If you’re hoping that 2025 is the year to see great healing and renewed closeness in your marriage because you’re feeling…

Distant and disconnected, Like something is missing or broken, Sexual intimacy is no longer easy or fun…

I have just the thing.

Couples have been so impacted by this course that I wanted to make it available to you.

There is nothing quite like reconnecting with your spouse, personalizing your communication so you deeply understand each other, and enjoying God’s plan for healthy sex in marriage.

When you unlock the secrets to a deeper, more fulfilling marriage it reignites the spark so you can build a thriving bond with your spouse.

This self-paced online course will help you do just that! {Check the link below.}

Let’s bring more wholeness and joy to marriages in 2025!

Families are yearning for the strength and security they need to THRIVE. The True Intimacy in Marriage course gives the exact steps you need.

“I am so thankful that I crossed paths with Mary! After hearing Mary give her testimony at an event, I just knew God had sent her to fill a needed role in my life.”

“Mary speaks from the heart about her own experiences and is very relatable. She creates a safe and comfortable space for me to be open and honest about my thoughts and experiences regarding sexual intimacy.”

“I’ve been in church for over twenty years and I’ve never heard this topic (healing from sexual wounds) brought up. Thank you so much. It’s needed.”

https://course.limitlessintimacy.com/evergreen-2635

Last Minute GIFT from the Heart! If you’re hoping that 2025 is the year to see great healing and renewed closeness in your marriage because you’re feeling… Distant and disconnected, Like something is missing or broken, Sexual intimacy is no longer easy or fun… I have just the thing. Couples have been so impacted by this course that I wanted to make it available to you. There is nothing quite like reconnecting with your spouse, personalizing your communication so you deeply understand each other, and enjoying God’s plan for healthy sex in marriage. When you unlock the secrets to a deeper, more fulfilling marriage it reignites the spark so you can build a thriving bond with your spouse. This self-paced online course will help you do just that! {Check the link below.} Let’s bring more wholeness and joy to marriages in 2025! Families are yearning for the strength and security they need to THRIVE. The True Intimacy in Marriage course gives the exact steps you need. “I am so thankful that I crossed paths with Mary! After hearing Mary give her testimony at an event, I just knew God had sent her to fill a needed role in my life.” “Mary speaks from the heart about her own experiences and is very relatable. She creates a safe and comfortable space for me to be open and honest about my thoughts and experiences regarding sexual intimacy.” “I’ve been in church for over twenty years and I’ve never heard this topic (healing from sexual wounds) brought up. Thank you so much. It’s needed.” https://course.limitlessintimacy.com/evergreen-2635

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