Reignite Your Connection and Enjoy Intimacy - God’s Design for Sex and Marriage
Private Relationship Coaching Sessions For Couples And Women
The Naked Truth
This can be because:
- The church has been largely silent about the topic
- A lot of people feel shame about sex
- They’re unclear on what God says about healthy sex
- They are unsure how to bring it up with their spouse
- It can be difficult to resolve conflicts about sex
Wrong beliefs about sex shouldn’t keep Christian couples from experiencing the freedom, enjoyment, and fun that God intended.
You’re Not Alone
Hope Is in Reach -
Overcome the Pain
Blocking Your Intimacy
Many couples carry around emotional baggage from past experiences, preventing them from enjoying true intimacy. You want to find a way back to loving yourself again, free from the shame, guilt and lies from a painful past. But restoring your heart and resolving your pain seems impossible right now. Not knowing where to turn for help can be discouraging and isolating. You know you want to move forward, but you don’t know how. You should not have to deal with a painful past on your own. You deserve to be confident in who you are and recognize your worth and value. You Can Be Heard. You Can Be Understood. You Can Be Loved.
By getting help from the right coach, you can set your relationship on a restorative path toward security, peace, fulfillment and happiness.
Relationship Coaching: Your Path to Joyful Intimacy and Marriage
Create a fulfilling relationship where communication flows freely, intimacy thrives, and you experience joy, fun, and play within a lifelong marriage bond.
Meet Mary, Your Relationship Coach
Mary Whitman Ortiz
Certified Relationship Coach, Intimacy Expert, and Christian Sex Educator
What to Expect When You Work With Mary
- You will always be in a safe place to share
- Everything is 100% confidential
- You will never be judged or feel shamed You’ll gain the tools to grow your relationship with healthy intimacy
What Clients Are Saying:
Choose Your Coaching Experience:

Couples Coaching
Learn how to openly communicate your desires for connection and intimacy with your spouse.
Blueprint for Healthy Intimacy
A four-week program to build layers in your communication and process gradually with purpose
Pillow Talk
An intensive program for couples for in-depth focus and speedy attention to issues you are facing right now.
Find your voice and heal your heart so you can be fully present in your relationship.
Relationship Confidence to be Authentically You
A four-week program to build layers in your communication and process gradually with purpose
Healing Your Heart for True Intimacy
An intensive program designed specifically for women with an in-depth focus and speedy attention to issues you are facing right now.
Relationship Coaching:
Your Next Steps
Step 1. Schedule a Free Consultation
We talk through where your intimacy in marriage is now, where you want it to be, and what it looks like to get you there.
Step 2. Get Unstuck
We put together a plan to enhance your intimacy and sex life without the taboo or awkwardness.
Step 3. Experience True Intimacy
We help you put into practice a lifestyle of connection that brings freedom and fun to your sexual intimacy.
Investment
4-Week Relationship Coaching Program
$497 $697
Faith-centered coaching journey that builds connection and intimacy layer by layer.
What's included:
- Four 1-hour online coaching sessions
- Weekly materials, activities, and assignments
- Resources to strengthen your relationship
- Unlimited email support for in-between questions and guidance
Payment plans available
Relationship Coaching Intensive + 30-Day Support
$997 $1,297
Focused coaching for speedy results with a blend of sessions and ongoing support.
What's included:
- 30-minute pre-call to set goals and expectations
- Intensive 4 ½-hour online session with activities, materials and breaks
- Two 30-minute follow-up calls to accelerate progress
- Personalized resources for your unique relationship
Payment plans available
Relationship Coaching In-Person Intensive
$1597+ $1,997
Transformative in-person experience at a beachside location, with added touches for a memorable day.
What's included:
- 30-minute pre-call to set goals and expectations
- Intensive 4 ½-hour session with with activities, materials and breaks
- Meal, snacks, and beverages at a luxury venue in Jacksonville Beach, FL
- Two 30-minute follow-up calls to accelerate progress
Payment plans available
Reignite Your Relationship - Book Today
Schedule your free 30-minute consultation with Mary today and take the first step toward healing, connection, and intimacy.
Frequently Asked Questions









































![What if the reason sex feels off…
isn’t because something’s wrong with you—
but because of what you were 'unknowingly' taught to believe?
Messages like:
❌ “Sex is just for men”
❌ “Desire is dirty”
❌ “Your body isn’t yours anymore”
❌ Silence = shame
These hidden beliefs shape how we show up in marriage, whether we realize it or not.
? In Episode 1 of Permission to Enjoy Intimacy, we’re uncovering the roots of your view of sex and why it still matters today.
? Watch now on YouTube: [link in bio]
? Request to be on the guide Waitlist: [comment WAITLIST]
You were never meant to carry shame into the bedroom.
Let’s replace the lies with truth that brings freedom.
#PermissionToEnjoy #ChristianWife #BiblicalIntimacy #FaithAndSex #HealingFromShame #ChristianMarriage](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/515759988_1244404701031340_3597364365629616346_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=102&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=0A1dZwibVIkQ7kNvwH0KwFw&_nc_oc=Adl7dB3FRb8enYJLQwe2my3qm3R2e6hroFvmk2aWLy5JKc3Gc2wUAkw5Xgztv71BKmQ&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_Affx3olKvttnOEERYGXYzIlcjILaW2wFmfOLY8jtwSXhqg&oe=6906FC1D)










![Never did I ever think I’d become a Christian Sex Educator.
Honestly? I was the least likely person.
But after walking through sexual shame, painful intimacy, a divorce, and a remarriage with physical and emotional struggles—I had to start asking hard questions.
? What does God really say about sex?
? Why didn’t the church teach us more than just what not to do?
? Is healing even possible?
My story is real, raw, and filled with hope—and I just shared it in a new video. If you’ve ever felt confused, ashamed, or stuck when it comes to sex in marriage... you’re not alone.
✨ There’s a new story waiting for you. One of wholeness, freedom, and joy.
? Watch now [link in comments]
#ChristianSexEducator #SexualHealing #FaithAndSex #ShameFreeSex #ChristianMarriageHelp #SexAndFaith #LimitlessIntimacy #HealingJourney](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/515289677_1218913090247168_6345377098569430210_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=110&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=I-XbiZEzTlcQ7kNvwGaIvfZ&_nc_oc=AdlkkPWxKaTQ79VYcZimrGSHkUAQSGhsPl9CNsxjF-FNmv9QU0qBh_HDp-izdY4aRLo&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_Aff7qXU1xkSoYtzdt_GjLH5_AyIXtzvUET87ZcYn7HoPig&oe=6906E469)









![“The church didn’t prepare me for a healthy sex life.”
If you’ve felt this—you're not alone. But blame won’t bring healing.
? It keeps you stuck.
? You can reclaim your voice, your joy, and God’s design for intimacy in marriage.
? Watch my story + how you can start healing too:
[see video link below]
#ChristianMarriage #SexAndTheChurch #FaithAndIntimacy #SexualHealing #MarriageGodsWay](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/506795182_1204233621715115_8452170121630902916_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=111&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=JfmU5CSw8poQ7kNvwGKqJU9&_nc_oc=Admo0ZsbNtnOGgPrrUg3oxBkfDE5MCEFRXzQPZrDKpaQNwzXtzvLrUz-6_65s_G5DkU&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfcVll3ELnkPi17Td3i8Efm6xnMjEZUD8DzmYMOObI-D-Q&oe=6906E6BA)

![? New Video: “Sex Predictable? 5 Surprising Ways to Make Married Sex Fun Again”
Does your sex life feel stuck on repeat? You love each other, but let’s be real, intimacy in marriage can get... routine.
That doesn’t mean something’s wrong. It just means it’s time to reconnect with fresh intention. ❤️
In this video, I’m sharing 5 surprising (and totally do-able) ways to bring back romance, playfulness, and deep connection without pressure, blame, or wild expectations.
✨ It’s not about needing something new because your partner isn’t enough
? It’s about speaking up, being intentional, and rediscovering the joy in each other.
? Watch now & let your marriage feel exciting again: [link below]
#MarriageIntimacy #FaithAndSex #ChristianMarriage #RealTalk #MarriedLife #SexInMarriage #EmotionalConnection #RomanticMarriage #MarriageHelp #SexualWholeness](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/504156175_1197931129012031_8894408107210844492_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=109&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=LHMVWpAxzksQ7kNvwGZygts&_nc_oc=AdkRGOU7wrJDhpGIkaIB-UncitvJswQLjkNADY9s3eok0TCN63AEwEE0KU36SntVlyw&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfdWvoh-r6N3wAffrZOv0bPdRx3FwHfWR-ySOFUTXugsXQ&oe=6906D99E)


![? “Why doesn’t she want sex anymore?”
If you’ve ever asked yourself that question or felt the weight of it in your relationship, you’re not alone.
This video isn’t about blame.
It’s about what’s really going on when desire fades…
? Why pressure can shut her down
? Why repeated asking actually kills attraction
? What your needs are really saying
? And how to talk about sex without shutting each other down
You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t doomed.
But intimacy can’t thrive where there’s confusion and disconnection.
? Watch now: Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore
? [Link below]
? Tag someone who needs this or save it for later.
#MarriageHelp #ChristianMarriage #SexAndMarriage #EmotionalIntimacy #FaithAndSexuality #MarriageAdvice #HealthyDesire #SexualWholeness #IntimacyMatters](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/501297747_1193159629489181_1951041367705785040_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=108&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=spvXz2AzN7MQ7kNvwEcxYwU&_nc_oc=AdnMFRhacjn0X3DfV-EtN1vq0g__CqFtAThGX9FBcx6GiwoYWnWZQ3mur8vEh9iR8s8&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfdBJNu4cCEdz8K1DzjsyYdQyATMAUNZrwOdwOMF6XgHKw&oe=6906DD3C)





![? Newly Married? This Might Surprise You About Sex…
You love each other. You said “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…
✨He’s always ready for sex.
✨You need a little more time to get there.
Sound familiar? ?
In our newest video, we're talking about something that surprises a lot of newlyweds:
Different sex drives. Different timing. Different needs.
? We cover: ❤️ Why desire often shows up differently for husbands and wives
? What to do when you're not “in the mood” at the same time
?️ An empowering tool to help you grow arousal together, not apart
? Watch now and grab “The Arousal Pathway” in the video description!
? [See link]
You're not broken. You're just learning—and that’s exactly where God meets you. ?
You love each other. You said, “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…iageHelp #RealTalk](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/499960890_1188438926627918_1853430168560919605_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=106&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=FdV1XFtR3YsQ7kNvwExdvUX&_nc_oc=Adnb2y0GjQjQs9A9VCtIb2XiRKwxygskvuj-P1w1ZspPR_vdybmYLo46ntVdBiJejZg&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfeiJskLv4jjmdwGpuQ9PgpOzy_MykMRy8CMivJ9T_xbCQ&oe=6906FE79)







![? New Video: Why Does Sex Feel Like So Much Work? ??
As we age, physical changes, mismatched desire, and lack of communication can make intimacy feel more like work than connection. ? But it doesn’t have to be that way!
In my latest video, I’m breaking down:
✨ Why sex can feel harder as we get older
? How to talk to your partner about intimacy struggles
? Ways to reignite passion and emotional connection
? Watch now: [See Link Below]
And if you’re ready for deeper support, relationship coaching can help you rebuild trust, communication, and desire. DM me or check out my coaching services to get started. ?
#IntimacyMatters #MarriageAdvice #ReigniteTheSpark #RelationshipCoaching #CommunicationIsKey #MarriageHelp #SexAndAging #CouplesGoals](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/493316345_1167191215419356_1764354481944620320_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=105&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=UhtsPQOzZAAQ7kNvwEEZlKK&_nc_oc=AdnPqyMWx92D-YQdan9s026H7jIDYZM2lZM4zBvmNSJvX_wMuuSiPsDVb8R5c-v0WpI&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AffKZEDEdkFaK7VkiSaEu0brEEVJOGgV5KZqXQxGsZp4dw&oe=6906EEC1)

























