True Intimacy in Marriage: Break Free From Disconnection AND Rekindle Your Passion
An online course to help you ignite closeness and passion, restore intimacy, and enjoy the thriving marriage that God designed and intends for you!
Overcome the Barriers to Intimacy. Reconnect and Rekindle Passion. End Marital Dissatisfaction.
Many couples begin their marriages filled with excitement and connection, but as life’s responsibilities take over, it’s easy for disconnection to set in. Over time, passion can fade, and dissatisfaction may follow, leaving you wondering how to bridge the gap. This course offers practical tools and strategies to help you break free from pain cycles, reconnect with your spouse, and rediscover the intimacy you desire. With each lesson, you’ll have the opportunity to create a deeper, more fulfilling connection and begin building the thriving marriage you both want.
Are You Feeling Disconnected
in Intimacy?
If you’re feeling…
- Distant & disconnected
- Like something is missing or broken
- Sexual intimacy is no longer easy or fun
- Frustrated over no improvement
- A sense that only one person is working on the marriage
- Worried the problem is too big
- Like you've let the issues go on too long
- Like your spouse doesn't want to work towards a better relationship
- Shamed by sexual messages from your past life
- Unsure of how God sees sex & what a healthy sex life looks like
…You need to know that you are NOT alone. Breakthrough is in reach.
Discover True Intimacy in Marriage: A Roadmap for Couples to Experience…
Unlock the Secrets to a Deeper, More Fulfilling
Marriage
Reignite the Spark and Build a Thriving Bond with Your Spouse.
Finding a healthy and Godly way to do marriage—including sexual intimacy that's not boring and is completely honoring and fun—is possible for you and your spouse.
You’ll learn how to:
- Overcome roadblocks in communication
- Reconnect with your spouse
- Create an intimacy you enjoy
- Personalize your communication and deeply understand each other
- Create a lifestyle of connection and closeness
- Reignite romance and sexual intimacy to strengthen your bond
- Build self-confidence that brings out the best in each other
- Enjoy God’s plan for healthy sex in marriage
Inside the Couples Course, You’ll Get:
Relationship Tools
Easy-to-follow communication skills to personalize your intimate connection.
Self-Paced Online Course
90-day access to the full online program complete with videos and study guide.
Support Community
Unlimited access to a free online community for support.
Course Modules:
- Sexual Wholeness In A Broken World
- Intrapersonal Realignment
- Self-Value Impacts Relationships
- God's Gift Is Good
- God's Gift Is Intimate
- God's Gift Is Fierce
- God's Gift Is Timeless
- Personalized Intimacy Plan
What Clients Are Saying:
Meet Your Instructor
Mary Whitman Ortiz
Certified Relationship Coach,
Christian Sex
Educator, and
Intimacy Expert
Mary Whitman Ortiz is a highly respected certified relationship coach, Christian sex educator, and marriage mentor with over 20 years of experience in the relationship industry. As the founder of Limitless Intimacy, Mary is passionate about empowering couples to cultivate deep, lasting connections in their marriages. Her expertise blends practical communication strategies with a faith-based approach to intimacy, offering couples the tools they need to overcome barriers and build stronger relationships.
Having personally navigated the challenges of divorce and healing from unwanted sexual behavior, Mary understands firsthand the transformative power of restoring intimacy in marriage. Her journey of personal growth, combined with her professional training, enables her to approach each couple’s situation with empathy, wisdom, and compassion.
Through her work as an educator, author, and speaker, Mary has helped countless couples reignite the passion and intimacy in their relationships. Her approach is rooted in biblical principles and practical wisdom, offering couples the guidance they need to reconnect emotionally and physically.
Mary's mission is clear: to help couples build marriages that thrive, rooted in mutual respect, authentic communication, and a deep understanding of God’s design for healthy, fulfilling relationships.
Transform Your Marriage: Getting Started is Simple
Step 1.
Enroll in the course & pay your tuition.
Step 2.
Check email for login to begin course.
Step 3.
Enjoy your thriving marriage.
Invest Today: Unlock Your Path to Passionate Intimacy
$297 One-Time Payment
Relationship Tools
Self-Paced Online Course
8 Modules
- Sexual Wholeness In A Broken World
- Intrapersonal Realignment
- Self-Value Impacts Relationships
- God's Gift Is Good
- God's Gift Is Intimate
- God's Gift Is Fierce
- God's Gift Is Timeless
- Personalized Intimacy Plan
Support Community
90-Day Access to Content (renewals available)
*This course is designed for informational purposes only. Any and all actions or consequences from the course are the sole responsibility of the course participant. Information should not be seen as medical or mental health advice, and is not meant to take the place of seeing licensed health professionals.
You're Only One Shift Away From a Thriving Marriage.
Reconnect. Reignite Passion. Enjoy Limitless Intimacy.







































![What if the reason sex feels off…
isn’t because something’s wrong with you—
but because of what you were 'unknowingly' taught to believe?
Messages like:
❌ “Sex is just for men”
❌ “Desire is dirty”
❌ “Your body isn’t yours anymore”
❌ Silence = shame
These hidden beliefs shape how we show up in marriage, whether we realize it or not.
? In Episode 1 of Permission to Enjoy Intimacy, we’re uncovering the roots of your view of sex and why it still matters today.
? Watch now on YouTube: [link in bio]
? Request to be on the guide Waitlist: [comment WAITLIST]
You were never meant to carry shame into the bedroom.
Let’s replace the lies with truth that brings freedom.
#PermissionToEnjoy #ChristianWife #BiblicalIntimacy #FaithAndSex #HealingFromShame #ChristianMarriage](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/515759988_1244404701031340_3597364365629616346_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=102&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=0A1dZwibVIkQ7kNvwH0KwFw&_nc_oc=Adl7dB3FRb8enYJLQwe2my3qm3R2e6hroFvmk2aWLy5JKc3Gc2wUAkw5Xgztv71BKmQ&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_Affx3olKvttnOEERYGXYzIlcjILaW2wFmfOLY8jtwSXhqg&oe=6906FC1D)










![Never did I ever think I’d become a Christian Sex Educator.
Honestly? I was the least likely person.
But after walking through sexual shame, painful intimacy, a divorce, and a remarriage with physical and emotional struggles—I had to start asking hard questions.
? What does God really say about sex?
? Why didn’t the church teach us more than just what not to do?
? Is healing even possible?
My story is real, raw, and filled with hope—and I just shared it in a new video. If you’ve ever felt confused, ashamed, or stuck when it comes to sex in marriage... you’re not alone.
✨ There’s a new story waiting for you. One of wholeness, freedom, and joy.
? Watch now [link in comments]
#ChristianSexEducator #SexualHealing #FaithAndSex #ShameFreeSex #ChristianMarriageHelp #SexAndFaith #LimitlessIntimacy #HealingJourney](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/515289677_1218913090247168_6345377098569430210_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=110&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=I-XbiZEzTlcQ7kNvwGaIvfZ&_nc_oc=AdlkkPWxKaTQ79VYcZimrGSHkUAQSGhsPl9CNsxjF-FNmv9QU0qBh_HDp-izdY4aRLo&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_Aff7qXU1xkSoYtzdt_GjLH5_AyIXtzvUET87ZcYn7HoPig&oe=6906E469)









![“The church didn’t prepare me for a healthy sex life.”
If you’ve felt this—you're not alone. But blame won’t bring healing.
? It keeps you stuck.
? You can reclaim your voice, your joy, and God’s design for intimacy in marriage.
? Watch my story + how you can start healing too:
[see video link below]
#ChristianMarriage #SexAndTheChurch #FaithAndIntimacy #SexualHealing #MarriageGodsWay](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/506795182_1204233621715115_8452170121630902916_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=111&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=JfmU5CSw8poQ7kNvwGKqJU9&_nc_oc=Admo0ZsbNtnOGgPrrUg3oxBkfDE5MCEFRXzQPZrDKpaQNwzXtzvLrUz-6_65s_G5DkU&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfcVll3ELnkPi17Td3i8Efm6xnMjEZUD8DzmYMOObI-D-Q&oe=6906E6BA)

![? New Video: “Sex Predictable? 5 Surprising Ways to Make Married Sex Fun Again”
Does your sex life feel stuck on repeat? You love each other, but let’s be real, intimacy in marriage can get... routine.
That doesn’t mean something’s wrong. It just means it’s time to reconnect with fresh intention. ❤️
In this video, I’m sharing 5 surprising (and totally do-able) ways to bring back romance, playfulness, and deep connection without pressure, blame, or wild expectations.
✨ It’s not about needing something new because your partner isn’t enough
? It’s about speaking up, being intentional, and rediscovering the joy in each other.
? Watch now & let your marriage feel exciting again: [link below]
#MarriageIntimacy #FaithAndSex #ChristianMarriage #RealTalk #MarriedLife #SexInMarriage #EmotionalConnection #RomanticMarriage #MarriageHelp #SexualWholeness](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/504156175_1197931129012031_8894408107210844492_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=109&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=LHMVWpAxzksQ7kNvwGZygts&_nc_oc=AdkRGOU7wrJDhpGIkaIB-UncitvJswQLjkNADY9s3eok0TCN63AEwEE0KU36SntVlyw&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfdWvoh-r6N3wAffrZOv0bPdRx3FwHfWR-ySOFUTXugsXQ&oe=6906D99E)


![? “Why doesn’t she want sex anymore?”
If you’ve ever asked yourself that question or felt the weight of it in your relationship, you’re not alone.
This video isn’t about blame.
It’s about what’s really going on when desire fades…
? Why pressure can shut her down
? Why repeated asking actually kills attraction
? What your needs are really saying
? And how to talk about sex without shutting each other down
You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t doomed.
But intimacy can’t thrive where there’s confusion and disconnection.
? Watch now: Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore
? [Link below]
? Tag someone who needs this or save it for later.
#MarriageHelp #ChristianMarriage #SexAndMarriage #EmotionalIntimacy #FaithAndSexuality #MarriageAdvice #HealthyDesire #SexualWholeness #IntimacyMatters](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/501297747_1193159629489181_1951041367705785040_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=108&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=spvXz2AzN7MQ7kNvwEcxYwU&_nc_oc=AdnMFRhacjn0X3DfV-EtN1vq0g__CqFtAThGX9FBcx6GiwoYWnWZQ3mur8vEh9iR8s8&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfdBJNu4cCEdz8K1DzjsyYdQyATMAUNZrwOdwOMF6XgHKw&oe=6906DD3C)





![? Newly Married? This Might Surprise You About Sex…
You love each other. You said “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…
✨He’s always ready for sex.
✨You need a little more time to get there.
Sound familiar? ?
In our newest video, we're talking about something that surprises a lot of newlyweds:
Different sex drives. Different timing. Different needs.
? We cover: ❤️ Why desire often shows up differently for husbands and wives
? What to do when you're not “in the mood” at the same time
?️ An empowering tool to help you grow arousal together, not apart
? Watch now and grab “The Arousal Pathway” in the video description!
? [See link]
You're not broken. You're just learning—and that’s exactly where God meets you. ?
You love each other. You said, “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…iageHelp #RealTalk](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/499960890_1188438926627918_1853430168560919605_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=106&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=FdV1XFtR3YsQ7kNvwExdvUX&_nc_oc=Adnb2y0GjQjQs9A9VCtIb2XiRKwxygskvuj-P1w1ZspPR_vdybmYLo46ntVdBiJejZg&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AfeiJskLv4jjmdwGpuQ9PgpOzy_MykMRy8CMivJ9T_xbCQ&oe=6906FE79)







![? New Video: Why Does Sex Feel Like So Much Work? ??
As we age, physical changes, mismatched desire, and lack of communication can make intimacy feel more like work than connection. ? But it doesn’t have to be that way!
In my latest video, I’m breaking down:
✨ Why sex can feel harder as we get older
? How to talk to your partner about intimacy struggles
? Ways to reignite passion and emotional connection
? Watch now: [See Link Below]
And if you’re ready for deeper support, relationship coaching can help you rebuild trust, communication, and desire. DM me or check out my coaching services to get started. ?
#IntimacyMatters #MarriageAdvice #ReigniteTheSpark #RelationshipCoaching #CommunicationIsKey #MarriageHelp #SexAndAging #CouplesGoals](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/493316345_1167191215419356_1764354481944620320_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=105&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=UhtsPQOzZAAQ7kNvwEEZlKK&_nc_oc=AdnPqyMWx92D-YQdan9s026H7jIDYZM2lZM4zBvmNSJvX_wMuuSiPsDVb8R5c-v0WpI&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=Djz4heHI0Tkdov9p7RXBFQ&oh=00_AffKZEDEdkFaK7VkiSaEu0brEEVJOGgV5KZqXQxGsZp4dw&oe=6906EEC1)

























