Can One Person Change the World? Shifting the Sexual Culture
Can One Person Change the World? Shifting the Sexual Culture
Can one person really change the world? This is a question that has sparked many discussions over the years, and the answer is yes. You can make a difference, and it all starts with you. If you're reading this, you're already a part of a greater call, a movement that has the potential to transform not only your life but the culture around you.
A Movement for Empowerment
At the heart of this transformation lies the concept of sexual wholeness. There is a growing need to address the brokenness in our sexual culture and offer solutions that lead to healing and empowerment. This isn’t just an individual issue—it’s a societal one. We've all been affected by sexual brokenness in some way, whether through personal experiences or seeing the impact on others. It's time to acknowledge this widespread issue and take steps toward changing the narrative.
Why We Need Education and Collaboration
One of the first steps in shifting the culture is education. We need to understand what God's design for marriage and sexual intimacy truly looks like. Education is key in bringing clarity to the confusion that exists in our world today. Once we begin to recognize the importance of sexual intimacy as a gift, we can move forward in creating healthier relationships.
But education alone isn't enough. We need collaboration. It’s not just about individual change—it’s about coming together as a community. Mental health professionals, ministry leaders, and nonprofit directors all play crucial roles in this movement. By working together, we can create a strong, unified voice that addresses sexual brokenness on a larger scale.
The Power of Feeling Seen and Loved
Another critical element in this journey is inspiration. It’s easy to feel unseen or unheard, especially when dealing with complex and sensitive issues like sexual intimacy. But when we feel valued, loved, and understood, something changes within us. This inner transformation starts to affect everything else. Your beliefs shape your thoughts, which shape your feelings, which ultimately influence your actions. When we begin to internalize love and acceptance, the impact ripples outward, affecting not just our personal lives but the culture around us.
Steps Toward Sexual Wholeness
So how can we start this transformation? The solution lies in sexual wholeness training and increasing our sexual wholeness intelligence. Understanding what it means to be sexually whole is a crucial step in bringing healing to ourselves and others. There are three important steps to take:
- Open the Dialogue: We need to start talking about sexual wholeness. These conversations should be open, honest, and non-judgmental. Only when we bring these topics into the light can we begin to heal.
- Identify the Impact of Brokenness: Take a moment to reflect on how sexual brokenness has impacted your life. What areas have been stolen or damaged by these issues? Identifying these areas allows you to begin the healing process, both for yourself and others.
- Become a Voice for Change: Once you've gained a deeper understanding of sexual wholeness and its importance, it’s time to step up and speak out. Be a voice that steers the shift in sexual culture, whether within your community or on a larger scale.
The Importance of Taking Action
If we don’t take steps toward healing, things won’t improve on their own. In relationships, there’s no such thing as standing still—either you’re growing or you're falling back. And if we continue to allow confusion, degradation, and distance to shape our sexual culture, we will only see more pain and brokenness. But when we commit to sexual wholeness, we create a light that shines through the darkness, offering hope and transformation.
New Hope for Marriages and Relationships
When we focus on sexual wholeness, we’re not just improving individual lives—we’re strengthening marriages and relationships. As love grows exponentially, so does the potential for thriving communities and families. By embracing this journey, we can shift the culture and create a future filled with hope, healing, and deep connection.
If you are interested in joining the sexual wholeness movement and making a real impact, check out the ministry leader training. This training is designed to equip leaders with the tools and knowledge to help others experience healing and transformation in their sexual lives and relationships. Together, we can bring about lasting change.
This movement starts with you. Will you answer the call?












































![What if the reason sex feels off…
isn’t because something’s wrong with you—
but because of what you were 'unknowingly' taught to believe?
Messages like:
❌ “Sex is just for men”
❌ “Desire is dirty”
❌ “Your body isn’t yours anymore”
❌ Silence = shame
These hidden beliefs shape how we show up in marriage, whether we realize it or not.
? In Episode 1 of Permission to Enjoy Intimacy, we’re uncovering the roots of your view of sex and why it still matters today.
? Watch now on YouTube: [link in bio]
? Request to be on the guide Waitlist: [comment WAITLIST]
You were never meant to carry shame into the bedroom.
Let’s replace the lies with truth that brings freedom.
#PermissionToEnjoy #ChristianWife #BiblicalIntimacy #FaithAndSex #HealingFromShame #ChristianMarriage](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/515759988_1244404701031340_3597364365629616346_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=102&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=ZTHJZF3l_2MQ7kNvwFLHRIv&_nc_oc=AdlKjOwJd_5ET80UBUH4anBI2oC4IvqrYXqTQrQHbzWmoUPwC1Urfp1R_ABLLgmMXBY&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=aVjKB8j2Mmj5DSQ1HweHSw&oh=00_AffYJNSM1137q05Fi75h0sKN8afLkC7oqjMAVB3SchWUVQ&oe=69099F1D)










![Never did I ever think I’d become a Christian Sex Educator.
Honestly? I was the least likely person.
But after walking through sexual shame, painful intimacy, a divorce, and a remarriage with physical and emotional struggles—I had to start asking hard questions.
? What does God really say about sex?
? Why didn’t the church teach us more than just what not to do?
? Is healing even possible?
My story is real, raw, and filled with hope—and I just shared it in a new video. If you’ve ever felt confused, ashamed, or stuck when it comes to sex in marriage... you’re not alone.
✨ There’s a new story waiting for you. One of wholeness, freedom, and joy.
? Watch now [link in comments]
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![“The church didn’t prepare me for a healthy sex life.”
If you’ve felt this—you're not alone. But blame won’t bring healing.
? It keeps you stuck.
? You can reclaim your voice, your joy, and God’s design for intimacy in marriage.
? Watch my story + how you can start healing too:
[see video link below]
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![? New Video: “Sex Predictable? 5 Surprising Ways to Make Married Sex Fun Again”
Does your sex life feel stuck on repeat? You love each other, but let’s be real, intimacy in marriage can get... routine.
That doesn’t mean something’s wrong. It just means it’s time to reconnect with fresh intention. ❤️
In this video, I’m sharing 5 surprising (and totally do-able) ways to bring back romance, playfulness, and deep connection without pressure, blame, or wild expectations.
✨ It’s not about needing something new because your partner isn’t enough
? It’s about speaking up, being intentional, and rediscovering the joy in each other.
? Watch now & let your marriage feel exciting again: [link below]
#MarriageIntimacy #FaithAndSex #ChristianMarriage #RealTalk #MarriedLife #SexInMarriage #EmotionalConnection #RomanticMarriage #MarriageHelp #SexualWholeness](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/504156175_1197931129012031_8894408107210844492_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=109&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=LHMVWpAxzksQ7kNvwGHd6GP&_nc_oc=AdkOI_reeZYXiT0lLn0sr6WvRRE9_hRzfZsr39Z1B71YCxOwO5bC2WZ9a8lKplzl4xE&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=aVjKB8j2Mmj5DSQ1HweHSw&oh=00_AfdYLhikHFIqGvkPyG6nqlntYGOP-_Pe9U8NnYODMtUHOA&oe=69097C9E)


![? “Why doesn’t she want sex anymore?”
If you’ve ever asked yourself that question or felt the weight of it in your relationship, you’re not alone.
This video isn’t about blame.
It’s about what’s really going on when desire fades…
? Why pressure can shut her down
? Why repeated asking actually kills attraction
? What your needs are really saying
? And how to talk about sex without shutting each other down
You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t doomed.
But intimacy can’t thrive where there’s confusion and disconnection.
? Watch now: Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore
? [Link below]
? Tag someone who needs this or save it for later.
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![? Newly Married? This Might Surprise You About Sex…
You love each other. You said “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…
✨He’s always ready for sex.
✨You need a little more time to get there.
Sound familiar? ?
In our newest video, we're talking about something that surprises a lot of newlyweds:
Different sex drives. Different timing. Different needs.
? We cover: ❤️ Why desire often shows up differently for husbands and wives
? What to do when you're not “in the mood” at the same time
?️ An empowering tool to help you grow arousal together, not apart
? Watch now and grab “The Arousal Pathway” in the video description!
? [See link]
You're not broken. You're just learning—and that’s exactly where God meets you. ?
You love each other. You said, “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…iageHelp #RealTalk](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/499960890_1188438926627918_1853430168560919605_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=106&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=MdOBbuO5X-8Q7kNvwEc62_i&_nc_oc=AdnFDjtdi3I1sFlbxiT6Y4hGgSFdpeqH9vfQbsIv8IyPl7KH4H-yI_ib54KLI0cUbfU&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=aVjKB8j2Mmj5DSQ1HweHSw&oh=00_AffBaVR92K71xu3Xabc4uYvQRM3RB_1xj0e1YX3IMVO7Cw&oe=69096939)







![? New Video: Why Does Sex Feel Like So Much Work? ??
As we age, physical changes, mismatched desire, and lack of communication can make intimacy feel more like work than connection. ? But it doesn’t have to be that way!
In my latest video, I’m breaking down:
✨ Why sex can feel harder as we get older
? How to talk to your partner about intimacy struggles
? Ways to reignite passion and emotional connection
? Watch now: [See Link Below]
And if you’re ready for deeper support, relationship coaching can help you rebuild trust, communication, and desire. DM me or check out my coaching services to get started. ?
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