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Have we expected our church leaders to teach us about Biblical sexuality?
Have we blamed them when they didn’t?
Why is it their role?
Are they the ones who stood at the altar and committed to love us as a spouse?
Lots of questions for sure!
What I know is… there has been too much taboo and we’ve chosen to avoid the topic.
Avoidance, ignorance, and blaming haven’t worked.
Let’s talk about realistic ways for church leadership to live in sexual integrity.
Let’s reveal some of the most overlooked questions that NEED to be addressed.
But the responsibility lies with you.
If you are married, and want Godly intimacy in your marriage, do the digging. Find out what that looks like.
Yes, there are questionable resources out there, but there are also good ones.
Your marriage is worth it.
The Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast is a movement to bring back God’s original design which is NOT a fundamental religious view or a watered-down social perspective.
Get the truth.
Get the freedom.
Be a light for others.
Catch this week’s episode!
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“What are you going to do about you?”
That is the ultimate honoring question to ask in church leadership.
Sure, we want boundaries. We want to manage choices. We want our leaders to walk in maturity in regard to sexual integrity and in every area.
But the biggest healing and transformation doesn’t come from a system of fear and punishment. It happens through relational accountability and the individual taking responsibility for themselves.
Good leaders grow in communities filled with clear expectations and actionable love.
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“Here’s the truth most churches won’t say out loud about sex…”
So many couples are quietly struggling in their marriages, not because they don’t love God, but because they’ve only been given a list of don’ts.
Don’t lust.
Don’t watch porn.
Don’t cheat.
But what about…
How to connect?
How to communicate desire?
How to experience intimacy without shame?
The problem isn’t always about sin. It could be the lack of conversations about the “DO” list.
When the Church avoids the conversation, couples suffer in silence.
It’s time to change that.
If this resonates, drop a ❤️ or share this with your spouse.
“Here are the questions most churches never ask about sex in marriage…”
Think about it, when was the last time you heard teaching on:
• Mutual pleasure in marriage?
• Consent even between spouses?
• Navigating mismatched desire?
• The difference between connection and obligation?
Too often, leaders in the church are unclear on their own views of biblical sexuality, so how can they guide others?
When there is silence, there can be confusion. All too often, that creates shame. Then, nobody asks the questions and the cycle continues.
Couples may think:
“Something must be wrong with us.”
But maybe… no one ever taught you.
Follow for more honest, faith-centered conversations about marriage and intimacy.
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Ep 22 The Questions Churches Avoid About Sex, Leadership & Blind Spots
We celebrate the power of God’s love to change the world.
The love Jesus showed on the cross… reaches forward to today and beyond, for every need, hurt, and desire to belong.
His love is overflowing for you!
In marriage, differences in sex drive are more common than people admit.
But here’s the real question:
When desire feels mismatched…
Do you lean into understanding or frustration?
If you’re the spouse with the higher drive, this might be for you:
Sometimes the breakthrough isn’t asking, “Why don’t they want more?”
It’s asking, “Do they feel emotionally safe with me?”
Emotional intimacy may not feel as urgent to you…
But it might be everything to your spouse.
Question for you:
What do you think builds emotional safety the most in marriage?
👇 Drop your thoughts below—let’s learn from each other.
Do you think couples communicate enough about what feels okay vs. not okay in sex?
Mutual trust.
Mutual agreement.
That’s what it takes for a foundation in relational intimacy.
When there’s a safe place for you to grow and express, you can say things like, “that missed the mark for me. Can you adjust that?”
It might feel like a tough conversation but every level of your intimacy will improve if you can talk about it.
Catch the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast, Ep 21! Link in bio.
Did you know some marriages use Scripture to justify coercion in the bedroom?
If a spouse feels they must provide sex or else ~face anger, withdrawal, spiritual guilt or threat of porn use~ that is coercion. Even if it’s subtle. Even if it’s wrapped in verses like 1 Cor 7:3.
Mary and Katieann challenge this head-on, showing how mutual affection and mutual consent honor God’s design.
Key takeaways:
• Reject spiritual guilt or manipulation
• Recognize sex as bonding, belonging, and becoming “one”
• Communicate openly about desires and boundaries
💡 Catch this episode and see how reframing intimacy transforms your connection.
Tag your spouse and plan a conversation this week about mutual desires.
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Even though a trip to Lowe’s wouldn’t normally be a date for us, we still laughed, relaxed, and envisioned some fun times together. Wait a minute. Maybe that was a date?!
When entitlement guides sex it leaves you open to devasting behavior.
What does it look like?
If a spouse feels they must provide sex or else face anger, withdrawal, spiritual guilt or threat of porn use that is coercion.
Even if it’s subtle. Even if it’s wrapped in Bible verses.
Coercion uses threats or force to destroy the ability to choose freely.
Coercion is never love. And it’s never consent.
We need to get back to God’s design.
That’s why we’re committed to bring back wholeness.
Catch episode 20. Wants vs. Needs: The Hidden Entitlement Hurting Your Sex Life
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634 downloads. Thousands of YouTube views. And we’re just getting started.
The Sexual Wholeness Revival Podcast is gaining momentum, and it’s not because we have it all figured out. It’s because we’re willing to go there.
We’re having real conversations.
We’re telling honest stories.
We’re diving into truth that sets people free.
And it’s resonating.
Because so many couples are tired of silence, shame, pressure, and confusion around sex. They’re ready for something better, something whole, something sacred, something actually good.
This is more than a podcast.
It’s a movement toward sexual wholeness in marriage.
Thank you for listening. Thank you for sharing. Thank you for being part of this.
Let’s keep going. 🔥
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God's happy domino effect.
The sacred outflow of love, trust, and unity is... sex.
It is a meaningful desire that in turn, strengthens... connection.
Deeper connection opens us to more love, trust, and unity… and sex.
The beautiful wonderful cycle continues.
The Sexual Wholeness Revival lives on.
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It’s easy to get it confused.
Needs are for survival like food, shelter, air, water, and rest.
Wants are deeply desired and meaningful.
Sex is clearly a ‘want’.
Sure, there is a core purpose with sex as a way to feel close, bonded, desired, chosen, mutual belonging, and one-flesh union.
Those are primary functions in marriage.
But they are not exclusive to sex.
Sex is a meaningful desire that strengthens connection.
Many marriages unknowingly fall into patterns where the word “needs” is used to manipulate or guilt a spouse into sex, sometimes even referencing Scripture. That stops here.
Learn how to:
• Differentiate wants from needs in your sexual relationship
• Honor mutual consent and self-control
• Reframe sex as sacred intimacy, not obligation
💡 Step toward a healthier, more loving marriage—catch this week’s episode and start the conversation with your spouse tonight.
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When the sun and the moon meet, at the end of the day, and it’s time to reflect, be thankful, and get ready for the reset. Ahhh…
How do you know what to say to your children about sex?
“Answer to their curiosity and don’t go beyond that.”
This keeps it age-appropriate and protects their innocence.
The ultimate goal is to honor your connection.
Catch Ep 19 Talking to Teens About Sex: Moving From Fear to Connection
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Why “The Talk” Doesn’t Actually Work
Many parents think they need to sit down and have one big conversation about sex.
But the truth is…
healthy conversations about sexuality happen over time.
Instead of one awkward moment, think of it as a series of small, natural conversations.
As questions arise.
As situations come up.
As your teen grows.
When parents stay calm, curious, and open, teens are far more likely to talk.
You don’t need a perfect speech.
You just need a safe space for honest dialogue.
Because the goal isn’t just information.
It’s trust.
Comment “CONNECTION” if you want more conversations with your teen instead of awkward silence.
If your teen was about to start dating seriously…
What do you hope they understand BEFORE they get there?
Here are three powerful questions parents can ask teens:
1. “What do you still want to learn before dating seriously?”
2. “What messages about sex from media confuse or bother you?”
3. “What biblical values about relationships matter most to you?”
Questions like these open the door for judgment-free conversation.
Instead of lectures, they create dialogue.
And dialogue builds trust.
Which of these questions would you ask your teen first?
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Many parents wait until dating begins to talk about sex and relationships.
But by then, our teens have already been forming beliefs through media, culture, and peers.
Our role isn’t just to warn them about what’s wrong.
It’s to help them understand what’s right, beautiful, and sacred about God’s design.
Healthy marriages grow from teens who learned:
• respect for their bodies
• healthy boundaries
• God’s purpose for intimacy
• how to honor one another
When we talk openly and calmly about these things, we give our teens something culture rarely offers: truth paired with grace.
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What does being intentional look like for you?
We combine the practical steps of checking in, looking at the calendar, and planning ahead to prioritize time together with affirmation and showing love that your spouse appreciates.
Share what you do to be intentional.
If your marriage is going through a sexual dry spell…
Do these 5 things to restore your connection and NOT become sexless.
• Plan fun activities together
• Start marriage check-ins (how are we doing?)
• Stay intentional about date time
• Speak encouragement and affirmation
• Schedule intimate time when life gets busy
If intimacy has slowed down in your marriage, rebuilding connection doesn’t have to be complicated.
These habits help protect intimacy instead of leaving it to chance.
Marriage thrives when couples choose connection on purpose.
If you’re navigating a sexless season, there is hope and practical wisdom available.
You’re not alone, and your marriage is worth investing in.
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Let’s talk about reconnecting.
When couples experience a sexual dry spell, the best place to start often isn’t sex.
It’s rebuilding closeness.
That might mean revisiting your love languages, even if it's not your normal, go-to language, that you may need to practice.
Consider some simple ways couples reconnect like:
• Holding hands
• Hugging more often
• Going on a fun date
• Doing a shared hobby
• Speaking affirmation
These small acts rebuild emotional safety and affection.
Question:
Which of these helps you feel most connected to your spouse?
Catch Ep 18 Sexless Season? How Couples Rebuild Closeness After a Sexual Dry Spell
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Did you know I used to be a classroom teacher? Music, art, drama, dance, outdoor education, gifted studies, at-risk students, and self-contained traditional. I did it all. Now, I teach adults about relationships. Every once in a while it seems like I hear a story that reminds me of a fifth-grade boy (IYKYK) but I love it!
To be direct, what is one of the biggest contributors to the orgasm gap?
The most common way for men to choose (i.course) is not the main way that women feel pleasure.
She would choose a different type of stimulation.
Yet culturally and historically, that hasn’t always been taught.
When couples don’t understand this difference:
• He may think he’s failing.
• She may think she’s broken.
• Both may avoid talking about it.
Education changes everything.
Get the facts. Get encouraged.
God's original design is for BOTH spouses to have mutual respect and satisfaction in intimacy.
Catch the entire episode.
Ep 17 The Orgasm Gap: Why She’s Not Experiencing Pleasure (and What to Do)
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When did we walk away from God's idea of mutual respect and satisfaction in marriage?
The truth is: BOTH spouses are welcomed to show up fully and freely for one another.
Women often need:
• Emotional safety
• Trust
• Resolved conflict
• Feeling seen and valued
Before their bodies fully respond.
Meanwhile, men are often wired to feel connection through physical intimacy.
Different pathways. Same goal.
Let's learn how to get to that place of connection so mutuality thrives.
Listen to the entire episode. Ep 17 The Orgasm Gap: Why She’s Not Experiencing Pleasure (and What to Do)
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If you could improve one thing about intimacy in your marriage, what would it be?
A) Communication
B) Emotional connection
C) Understanding her body
D) Reducing pressure
E) Healing past shame
Drop the letter below 👇
Answering this question brings more safety and love to your marriage. It's bringing honest conversation to the light.
You don’t fix the orgasm gap with technique alone.
You fix it with understanding, compassion, and growth.
Marriage intimacy is meant to bless both husband and wife.
And learning is part of love.
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Are you telling me Hollywood's version isn't true?!!!
That's absolutely correct!
Intimacy isn't instant. It isn't automatic.
Women need to feel safe in order to relax and give themselves to private moments with their husband.
Communication is always the key to more connection.
“Let’s talk honestly…”
Without sharing anything explicit —
Do you think many wives lose interest in intimacy because they aren’t actually experiencing pleasure?
YES
NO
UNSURE
Drop your answer below 👇
Healthy marriages aren’t built on silence.
They’re built on understanding.
Let’s create space for real conversation — without shame, without blame.
Listen to Ep 17 The Orgasm Gap: Why She’s Not Experiencing Pleasure (and What to Do)
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“What if the church talked about sex as part of spiritual formation?”
Here’s the tension:
Churches often address sexual sin after damage has happened.
But what if we taught sexual wholeness before crisis?
What if:
• Pre-marital counseling included joyful theology of intimacy?
• Married couples were equipped with communication tools?
• Pastors addressed fear and inherited shame?
• Healthy sex was normalized as part of Christian maturity?
* Entire families benefited from a renewed sense of security?
When sex is treated as separate from spiritual life, couples feel isolated in their struggles.
But Scripture affirms sexual intimacy in marriage.
It was always meant to reflect covenant, unity, and sacred joy.
We cannot disciple the whole person while avoiding this conversation.
🎧 The full episode unpacks why this silence persists, and how to shift it.
Ep 16 Why Churches Address Sexual Sin but Not Sexual Wholeness—And the Cost to Marriage
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“Purity culture didn’t teach many couples how to say ‘yes.’”
For many Christian couples, the messaging sounded like:
“Don’t.”
“Wait.”
“Guard yourself.”
“Stay pure.”
But very few were taught how to step into a healthy, joyful, embodied “yes” inside marriage.
When sex is framed primarily around fear and punishment, couples can:
• Rush into marriage thinking it will fix everything
• Struggle to access desire without guilt
• Feel shame when intimacy isn’t easy
• Believe something is spiritually wrong when it’s simply human growth
The problem wasn’t the call to holiness.
The problem was the absence of wholeness.
Sex in marriage was never meant to be anxious, pressured, or performance-driven.
It was designed to be good. Intimate. Bonding. Sacred.
And that’s a very different conversation.
🎧 Listen to the full episode for a deeper discussion.
Ep 16 Why Churches Address Sexual Sin but Not Sexual Wholeness—And the Cost to Marriage
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When the church stays silent, the world does not.
Kids and teens will find answers somewhere.
The question is: will those answers be grounded in truth?
Avoiding the topic doesn’t protect innocence.
It often pushes curiosity toward misinformation.
Sexual wholeness means we:
• Speak respectfully
• Speak clearly
• Speak in the light
• And point to Jesus as the person of truth
Silence may feel safer.
But truth spoken with honor builds stronger marriages and stronger families.
Listen to Ep 16
Why Churches Address Sexual Sin but Not Sexual Wholeness—And the Cost to Marriage
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What’s the one (happy) picture you have taken where they tell you not to smile?
Here’s what most couples don’t realize:
You and your spouse likely started marriage with two completely different “messages” about sex.
Different comfort levels.
Different assumptions.
Different fears.
And neither of you may have chosen them intentionally.
Especially if these messages were influenced by a lie about your own value and identity.
In Episode 15, we talk about identifying the original lie so you can stop reacting to each other — and start understanding each other.
Awareness changes everything. It’s the beginning of healing.
🎧 Listen together this week.
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Most couples didn’t intentionally build their marriage on something false.
But many of us did.
We inherited beliefs about sex that were never examined:
• “Don’t talk about it.”
• “It’s embarrassing.”
• “If it’s not working, just avoid it.”
And those quiet assumptions become foundations.
Episode 15 is about gently uncovering where those messages came from — and how to rebuild on truth instead of silence.
If intimacy feels harder than it should… this might be why.
🎧 Listen to Episode 15 of Sexual Wholeness Revival.
📖 Then grab the free e-book God’s Gift to Marriage to start rebuilding together.
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What's one thing that's good for your kids and every area of your life?
Catch Ep 15 We didn't start with a message - We started with a lie
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I get it. Sex is usually taboo to talk about. It feels awkward. We avoid it. Everything kinda goes silent.
What what is the opposite of taboo?
This is pretty cool. It's words you'll find to be inviting like...
Acceptance and encouragement.
How different would those conversations be if that was the norm?
Catch the whole story on Ep 14 Body Image, Addiction, and Silence: How They Impact Sex in Marriage (Audience Q&A)
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If talking about sex feels taboo (especially in the church community) then what is the opposite of taboo?
What are we aiming for?
This answer might surprise you.
I firmly believe that the lack of talking about sex in a healthy and godly way is at the root of so many problems.
It keeps couples feeling isolated, with another layer of shame. Those are huge obstacles to overcome.
Listen to the entire episode: Ep 14 Body Image, Addiction, and Silence: How They Impact Sex in Marriage (Audience Q&A)
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Do you say the right things but your spouse knows it’s only lip service? We hide our problems far too often, especially when it comes to sex. On this week’s podcast we answer audience questions about body image, addiction, shame, and… staying silent. It may feel odd to be so direct but we want the healing to begin. Check it out. Link in the bios. #Christianmarriage #intimacyinmarriage #faithandsex #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast
Are you still attracted to me? Wives want to know.
Husbands, when you reassure your wife of your desire and commitment... just look out!! She will be there for you.
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What do you really want in your marriage relationship?
Sometimes we get caught up in the busyness of life and don't stop to think.
Maybe you'd like to make changes but you aren't sure where to start.
That's when a relationship breakthrough call can really help.
It's a great first place to wrap your head around the delicate issues of intimacy so you're more prepared to talk it out with your spouse.
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Rebekah was so excited when she saw Isaac, she fell off her camel. It was a first-time attraction that completely took her breath away. Never read that before? Try Genesis 24:64-65
Jacob was so motivated by seeing Rachel, that he sprung into super human strength to remove the stone from the well. That’s just a few chapters away in Genesis 29:10
The Bible’s version of passion is not only fiery, it’s bonding for your marriage.
Hear their passion stories, managed well, and developed into long-lasting marriage .
Catch episode 13: Why Passion Alone Won’t Hold You Together (But it's a Great Starting Place)
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What really bonds you as a couple? Passion is good but it only goes so far. What really matters is how you get through conflict and come out the other side even closer.
Catch ep 13: Why Passion Alone Won’t Hold You Together
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We're afraid of passion.
We're torn between you have to have more... be always increasing or something is wrong with you. OR don't even think about it, that's not the right focus.
I am against treating passion as the proof of a successful marriage.
I am for whole-person commitment that sustains love, joy, and intimacy over time.
Passion is good, from God, and amazing, when it is safe and mutual.
Catch episode #13- Why Passion Alone Won't Hold You Together
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Be proactive. You will not regret it.
No more ostriches burying your head about what's going on.
Song of Solomon describes the passion of being pursued. It's God's standard. Nothing compares to it. It lifts sex out of a worldly view. It brings honor to love. It creates the bond; the love of a lifetime.
We compare God's idea of passion with the lies the media tells in this week's episode.
Catch #11: Hollywood’s Desire Model Fails Most Couples (Here’s What Works Instead)
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Hollywood has told us too many lies about relationships. Things like getting serious too soon, acting on impulse to the slightest hint of flirtation, and believing that all desire is spontaneous. What’s true is responsive desire is something that grows with a safe and caring emotional connection. Get the facts. Going from ‘no’ to ‘yes’ is easier than you think. Catch ep 12 for the whole story: Hollywood’s Desire Model Fails Most Couples ( Here’s What to Do Instead) See link. #marriageadvice #relationshiptips #Christianmarriage #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast
What do fajitas have to do with sex?
Responsive desire builds in response to a stimulation. Maybe intimacy isn't on your mind. Maybe you're only mildly interested. But when the setting is right, the types of touch are well-played, and the emotional connection stirs deeply... just like that *snap* the desire comes alive.
You can go from "no" to "yes" much easier than you think.
Catch episode #12 Hollywood’s Desire Model Fails Most Couples (Here’s What Works Instead)
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Quick date night over the weekend. It’s been a bit since we had time for just us. I want to get back in the swing of things since all of our family events (new grandbaby and passing of Tim’s dad) but I know I don’t need to rush it. We will look back at this season and be thankful for all the love shared. Love shapes us. #marriagestrength #marriagetips #Christianmarriage #stilldodatenights
It's a sad situation when you're not emotionally safe with your spouse but it's very common. If you are walking on eggshells, fearing what dismissive behavior your spouse will show, you don't have trust.
That is a scenario where we can't recommend sexual intimacy in your marriage!!
It will do more harm than good if you try to heal your broken trust with sex.
For true, deeper connection you've got to dig into the "why" for your behavior.
Catch the entire episode: Ep 11 Why More Sex Won’t Heal Broken Trust
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We all make mistakes but... if it happens again and again, trust is broken. This is especially true in regard to intimacy.
Just saying, I'm sorry. I'll do better, isn't enough.
The change in behavior must be obvious. Our goal is to value the connection so much that you are willing to adjust.
Catch episode 11: Why More Sex Won’t Heal Broken Trust
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When we hide things because of shame, we can't build trust. It's not about withholding information to protect your spouse. That's a lie you're using that's causing even more distance. We only kept closer in truth.
Catch episode 11: "Why More Sex Won’t Heal Broken Trust"
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Taking care of “you” is taking care of “us”. There’s nothing selfish about that. Showing you are responsible for yourself is a gift to your marriage. How do you refuel? #christianmarriage #marriagetips #relationshipadvice #selfawareness #personalresponsibility
God’s surprises in the moment are always bigger and better than you can imagine.
"There's no withholding physically or in my heart because he's just created, he's just raised the standard of what it means to be seen and loved."
This is the most beautiful example of both spouses feeling safe enough to open up and be vulnerable.
Love happens when trust is present.
Catch the full episode: Husbands: What to Say After Sex That Makes Her Want You More
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Husbands can be in the dark when it comes to emotional connection because they're not socialized that way. They're told- that's not what a real man does.
Romance feels like a big, long, drawn out process that takes a lot of work and time to plan. It seems overwhelming and scary.
On top of that, it usually backfires.
Then, he never wants to go through that again!
That's when you have to remember, more than the big showy romance... she wants to know: is he still interested in me?
Guys, you've got this. You can find the words. You can set the tone. You can do this.
Listen to episode #10: Husbands: What to Say After Sex That Makes Her Want You More
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"If you feel it big, say it big!!!" Husbands, you've told us that you feel connected through sex. That's awesome! So use that overflow of emotion to lavish love on your wife.
Tell her all the loving things she wants to hear. When it’s bubbling up inside of you and naturally present, use that moment to openly share. You will win her right there! You will eliminate every battle about sex because you are showing her- I see you. I hear you. I know you. That is your answer on how to emotionally connect.
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Ray Ortiz, you will be missed. You were such a wonderful example of how to be a godly man for your sons. Thank you for loving your family well.
The media lies. Spontaneous desire is NOT the norm for many women. If your marriage is based on respect and you have a great commitment to connection, you can lean into- these reasons to choose sex even if you’re not feeling it in the moment.
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Every couple can enjoy sexual intimacy in marriage. Does that seem like a radical statement? I think the reason it doesn’t happen is because of the taboo. We just don’t talk about healthy sex, especially God’s original design. The opposite of taboo is: acceptance and engagement. That’s exactly what I provide at Limitless Intimacy relationship coaching. I help couples create mutually respectful and satisfying intimacy. DM me today to find out how working together will help you Re-set your marriage in 2026! #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #faithandsex
We want to meet wives right where they are in their perspective on sex. Validating these issues that are completely normal and totally real, helps to remove the shame and allow more understanding. Creating great intimacy starts with intentional honesty. Listen to the full episode of the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast. Link in bio.
The reason we want healthy sex and intimacy is for connection. That is the foundation of your marriage. So being able to talk about sex will improve EVERYTHING! #2026marriagegoals #healthyintimacyinmarriage #Christianmarriage #marriagepodcast
2026 is a blank canvas. You decide how you’re gonna show up. Choose love even though it takes courage. To get the best marriage find out what healthy intimacy looks like. Listen to episode 8 of the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast. Link in bio. #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #faithandsex #relationshiptips #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast
Happy New Year! Here is a powerful tool for 2026. It’s asking the question, “Can you tell me more?” Your perspective is valid but not the whole story. In close relationships, like your marriage, you NEED to know what your spouse is thinking and feeling. Invite them to share. #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #relationshiptools #asktolearn
A lie a husband might believe- if my wife doesn’t want sex she is rejecting me.
A lie a wife might believe, if my husband wants sex, I can’t say, no.
Those ideas are so devaluing. That's NOT God's design.
When you break out of that, you can step into truth.
Listen to episode 7 of the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast.
Link in bio.
#marriagepodcast #Christianmarriage #sexandfaith
Brrr…. Walking in a frozen, icy wonderland!
We are transformed by the renewing of our mind so… it brings us to the place of choice.
We get to choose what we believe.
For wives, you can choose to believe it when your husband says, I love you.
Flip the switch from rejection to acceptance.
It’s probably NOT that your spouse doesn’t love you but that you don’t love yourself. If you don’t love yourself, it’s almost impossible to believe your spouse loves you.
Listen to Ep 7. The Quiet Lies Sabotaging Your Sex Life (and How to Break Them)
Link in bio.
We wish you fresh encounters in God’s presence, His love that holds and carries you. Make room in your heart for more.
The lies we believe about sex go much deeper. It’s not just a wife thinking I can never say NO. It’s not just a husband thinking, I feel rejected.
It's a core thought of: “My feelings don’t matter. My needs don’t matter. Maybe I don’t matter. “ That’s why the lie is so harmful. That’s why staying in anger and isolation keeps you trapped.
If you don’t want your identity and value to be crushed, you need to hear this, Link in bio. Ep 7
The lies we believe about sex go much deeper. It’s not just a wife thinking I can never say NO.
It’s a core thought of: “My feelings don’t matter. My needs don’t matter. Maybe I don’t matter. “ That’s why the lie is so harmful. That’s why staying in anger keeps you trapped.
If you don’t want your identity and value to be crushed, you need to hear this, Link in bio. Ep 7
Ready to be walking in a winter Wonderland!
Intimacy in marriage is best when we include all of the fruits of the spirit.
Catch this week's episode: When Sex Feels Selfish—But the Shift to Sacred Unlocks a Deeper Kind of Love
Link in bio.
"To think intimacy only happens through the act of sex is one big piece of misinformation." Katieann Browning
Catch the episode. Link in bio.
When Sex Feels Selfish—But the Shift to Sacred Unlocks a Deeper Kind of Love
We had a great time with Tim’s staff at the Environment Control Christmas party. God has blessed us with a wonderful team. You can’t see it but I have a reindeer pin on my fedora so, sure, I decorated my hat. lol
Name one thing that stayed the same after you got married. Exactly!
You can count on differences after you get married even if you were sexually intimate with your fiance. It's unexplored territory.
Listen to the episode:
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/5-conflict-in-the-bedroom-the-surprise-opportunity/id1851636743?i=1000740393460
We think building walls is an easy solution because we feel rejected. We're waiting for our spouse to "read my mind" and fix it. But that only delays the relief of a disconnection in marriage.
Listen to the entire episode: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/5-conflict-in-the-bedroom-the-surprise-opportunity/id1851636743?i=1000740393460
I highly recommend it!
There are definitely reasons to say No to sex... even in marriage. But if your interaction always sounds like excuses to avoid it, something else is going on. Plus, you may be missing out on benefits you never realized. Catch this week's episode!
https://youtu.be/hx1jMdK8A2s
What jet-skiing taught me about sex… the hesitations we have are blown out-of-the-water by the benefits.
Hear more about the goodness God designed for married couples in intimacy.
Hear more about the goodness God designed for married couples in intimacy on this week’s episode. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sexual-wholeness-revival/id1851636743
Reasons women don't want to have sex... when it feels like your husband is a stranger. Listen to the entire episode-
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/4-desire-doesnt-disappear-in-marriage-but-avoidance/id1851636743?i=1000738204112
When you let the Christmas season remind you of God and you choose His goodness to meditate on, it changes you. It gives you fresh love to draw from for the holiday craziness and it puts your focus on things that build you up. When you are strengthened, your marriage is better. #Christianmarriage #marriagtips #intimacyinmarriage #emotionalconnection #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast
If there has ever been a block in your sex life, holiday stress could trigger it right now. So let’s be prepared. You need to know how to talk about sex with your spouse to heal and become closer.
Listen to: TALKING ABOUT SEX IS HARD (BUT IT MIGHT BE THE MOST HEALING THING YOU EVER DO)
#Christianmarriage #marriagetips #faithandsex #intimacyinmarriage
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-sexual-wholeness-revival/id1851636743
Holidays can trigger emotions. Those things you've been trying to ignore can come to the surface. If you've ever felt uncomfortable talking about sex, this might be when it shows up. Catch this week's episode to learn baby steps to bridge the gap with talking about sex. https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-talking-about-sex-is-hard-but-it-might-be-the-most/id1851636743?i=1000738312372
Giving thanks in all things!
Thanksgiving means family, food, fun, and potential for awkward conversations. Get prepared by learning a few responses that are easy to interject. It shows you have listened but also creates an “out” so delicate conversation can take place at a better time. #marriagehelp #christianmarriage #awkwardconversations #holidaytips #relationshiptipsforfamily
We wrongly assume our spouse has the same buy-in that we do, that we trust alike. Even if you share the most essential values, you can misunderstand trust.
It can be influenced by your current relationship as well as your past experiences. Trust affects your intimate relationship in every way- emotionally, sexually, spiritually, and physically.
Trust is the foundation of ALL intimacy.
You may have by-passed this through the spontaneity of dating. Things were on a roll until they weren't. You can still re-write your story with trust.
Find out how to increase your trust level on this episode: Talking About Sex Is Hard (But It Might Be the Most Healing Thing You Ever Do)
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/3-talking-about-sex-is-hard-but-it-might-be-the-most/id1851636743?i=1000738312372
Celebrating our small (and growing) beginning!
Thank you, God for restored marriages and awakening hope for the love of a lifetime!
Listen to the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast, wherever you find your podcasts!
#ChristianMarriage #MarriageHelp #faithandsex #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast
Your disconnected marriage can truly thrive. Conversations about sex every couple needs to hear.
What do you think?
The Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast trailer.
Need help talking about sex with your spouse? Bring an objective resource to the table for discussion. That reduces the anxiety and opens it up for both of you. Listen to the Sexual Wholeness Revival podcast to help you talk about sex with your spouse. #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #faithandsex #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast
What a Big Day! The podcast is LIVE! I can’t wait to hear how many marriages will step into wholeness! #christianmarriage #marriagehelp #sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast
How different is the narrative on sex from two generations?
Katieann and I breakdown how societal and religious misconceptions have distorted our understanding of sex.
Maybe you’ll recognize your life in our stories.
Maybe you’ll be nudged to see sex a better way.
Maybe you’ll anticipate the win-win-win that God intended.
Listen to: “Beyond the Physical: How Sexual Wholeness in Marriage is a Win-Win-Win and How You Can have It, Too”
*https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-53wgj-19b884e
Let’s Bring Back Wholeness!
#sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast #ChristianMarriage #MarriageTips
Better than what the media or church ever told you... God's design for sexual intimacy in marriage is Ah-may-zing!
We go LIVE on Nov 11!
Ep 1" Beyond the Physical: How Sexual Wholeness in Marriage is a Win-Win-Win and How You Can Have It too."
Join us and let's bring back wholeness! https://www.podbean.com/eas/pb-53wgj-19b884e
#sexualwholenessrevivalpodcast #Christianmarriage #marriagetips
~ONE WEEK COUNTDOWN!!~
We're so excited to share conversations about God's beautiful design for oneness in marriage. The spirit-soul-body connection equals wholeness!
Stay Tuned! Link Coming Soon! We go LIVE on NOV 11!
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