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 Want to get on the same page as your spouse, sexually? You need a variety of approaches to excite the senses, straight-forward steps to engage desire, and a sexy-talk script to heighten pleasure and passion.
This proven desire-igniter helps you cultivate arousal and deepen the connection* in your marriage. Listen to what others have said.
 
 “I liked “the engaging in positive arousal” activities because I need communication to bring immediate closeness and cultivate arousal. I agree that a wife’s desire grows through all of the steps and I have a need for words and physical touch. I find my pleasure points change so it is challenging to keep it interesting and helps prevent us from being mechanical in our intimacy with each other.” -B.D.
 
  
 “Mary’s advice on how to create desire in a woman has really helped me! I need to mentally say “yes” and shift my mind to the positive idea of what sex will do for us as a couple. It’s not merely intercourse, but deep connection (body, mind, and spirit). Deeper, more intimate connection with one another has been taken to new levels in our sex life.” A.F.
 
  
 “Sometimes the path to intimacy can seem more challenging or complex than it really needs to be. It’s more of following straightforward steps to show openness, listen, share, and offer love. This simplified guide offers a great synthesized set of steps that can be a quick reference and reminder. It’s nice that you don’t need to read a whole book or go back and review whole chapters to get these steps.” J.H.
 
  
 The “Lover’s Special: Arousal Pathway Guide & Video: includes a downloadable guide on desire boosters and a ‘how to’ video with behind-the-scenes tips to apply the steps.
 
  
 Watch, read, talk, and enjoy with your spouse in the privacy of your own bedroom.
 
  
 *Sexual intimacy is a gift from God to marriage. As an overflow of genuine connection in all areas of your relationship, the oneness you experience helps you know true intimacy and makes your marriage strong. These steps are based on a Biblical foundation.
 
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![What if the reason sex feels off…
isn’t because something’s wrong with you—
but because of what you were 'unknowingly' taught to believe?
Messages like:
❌ “Sex is just for men”
❌ “Desire is dirty”
❌ “Your body isn’t yours anymore”
❌ Silence = shame
These hidden beliefs shape how we show up in marriage, whether we realize it or not.
? In Episode 1 of Permission to Enjoy Intimacy, we’re uncovering the roots of your view of sex and why it still matters today.
? Watch now on YouTube: [link in bio]
? Request to be on the guide Waitlist: [comment WAITLIST]
You were never meant to carry shame into the bedroom.
Let’s replace the lies with truth that brings freedom.
#PermissionToEnjoy #ChristianWife #BiblicalIntimacy #FaithAndSex #HealingFromShame #ChristianMarriage](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/515759988_1244404701031340_3597364365629616346_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=102&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=ZTHJZF3l_2MQ7kNvwFLHRIv&_nc_oc=AdlKjOwJd_5ET80UBUH4anBI2oC4IvqrYXqTQrQHbzWmoUPwC1Urfp1R_ABLLgmMXBY&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=aVjKB8j2Mmj5DSQ1HweHSw&oh=00_AffYJNSM1137q05Fi75h0sKN8afLkC7oqjMAVB3SchWUVQ&oe=69099F1D)










![Never did I ever think I’d become a Christian Sex Educator.
Honestly? I was the least likely person.
But after walking through sexual shame, painful intimacy, a divorce, and a remarriage with physical and emotional struggles—I had to start asking hard questions.
? What does God really say about sex?
? Why didn’t the church teach us more than just what not to do?
? Is healing even possible?
My story is real, raw, and filled with hope—and I just shared it in a new video. If you’ve ever felt confused, ashamed, or stuck when it comes to sex in marriage... you’re not alone.
✨ There’s a new story waiting for you. One of wholeness, freedom, and joy.
? Watch now [link in comments]
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![“The church didn’t prepare me for a healthy sex life.”
If you’ve felt this—you're not alone. But blame won’t bring healing.
? It keeps you stuck.
? You can reclaim your voice, your joy, and God’s design for intimacy in marriage.
? Watch my story + how you can start healing too:
[see video link below]
#ChristianMarriage #SexAndTheChurch #FaithAndIntimacy #SexualHealing #MarriageGodsWay](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/506795182_1204233621715115_8452170121630902916_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=111&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=NvT8lCJFxpYQ7kNvwFW45WD&_nc_oc=Adnp-7Amdv6lh1lKqSd647zlrPOShTGcKZcWbwsUhg37qAX5sK5yiFxjUhR6KAx09dE&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=aVjKB8j2Mmj5DSQ1HweHSw&oh=00_AfcaE4vFa_4aH0ZwYBcbdbuA9q9UFu-DfOZo7ms4E33n-g&oe=690989BA)

![? New Video: “Sex Predictable? 5 Surprising Ways to Make Married Sex Fun Again”
Does your sex life feel stuck on repeat? You love each other, but let’s be real, intimacy in marriage can get... routine.
That doesn’t mean something’s wrong. It just means it’s time to reconnect with fresh intention. ❤️
In this video, I’m sharing 5 surprising (and totally do-able) ways to bring back romance, playfulness, and deep connection without pressure, blame, or wild expectations.
✨ It’s not about needing something new because your partner isn’t enough
? It’s about speaking up, being intentional, and rediscovering the joy in each other.
? Watch now & let your marriage feel exciting again: [link below]
#MarriageIntimacy #FaithAndSex #ChristianMarriage #RealTalk #MarriedLife #SexInMarriage #EmotionalConnection #RomanticMarriage #MarriageHelp #SexualWholeness](https://scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/504156175_1197931129012031_8894408107210844492_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=109&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=LHMVWpAxzksQ7kNvwGHd6GP&_nc_oc=AdkOI_reeZYXiT0lLn0sr6WvRRE9_hRzfZsr39Z1B71YCxOwO5bC2WZ9a8lKplzl4xE&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-1.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=aVjKB8j2Mmj5DSQ1HweHSw&oh=00_AfdYLhikHFIqGvkPyG6nqlntYGOP-_Pe9U8NnYODMtUHOA&oe=69097C9E)


![? “Why doesn’t she want sex anymore?”
If you’ve ever asked yourself that question or felt the weight of it in your relationship, you’re not alone.
This video isn’t about blame.
It’s about what’s really going on when desire fades…
? Why pressure can shut her down
? Why repeated asking actually kills attraction
? What your needs are really saying
? And how to talk about sex without shutting each other down
You’re not broken. Your marriage isn’t doomed.
But intimacy can’t thrive where there’s confusion and disconnection.
? Watch now: Why She Doesn’t Want Sex Anymore
? [Link below]
? Tag someone who needs this or save it for later.
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![? Newly Married? This Might Surprise You About Sex…
You love each other. You said “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…
✨He’s always ready for sex.
✨You need a little more time to get there.
Sound familiar? ?
In our newest video, we're talking about something that surprises a lot of newlyweds:
Different sex drives. Different timing. Different needs.
? We cover: ❤️ Why desire often shows up differently for husbands and wives
? What to do when you're not “in the mood” at the same time
?️ An empowering tool to help you grow arousal together, not apart
? Watch now and grab “The Arousal Pathway” in the video description!
? [See link]
You're not broken. You're just learning—and that’s exactly where God meets you. ?
You love each other. You said, “I do.” And now you’re discovering that…iageHelp #RealTalk](https://scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com/v/t39.30808-6/499960890_1188438926627918_1853430168560919605_n.jpg?stp=dst-jpg_e35_tt6&_nc_cat=106&ccb=1-7&_nc_sid=18de74&efg=eyJlZmdfdGFnIjoiRkVFRC5iZXN0X2ltYWdlX3VybGdlbi5DMyJ9&_nc_ohc=MdOBbuO5X-8Q7kNvwEc62_i&_nc_oc=AdnFDjtdi3I1sFlbxiT6Y4hGgSFdpeqH9vfQbsIv8IyPl7KH4H-yI_ib54KLI0cUbfU&_nc_zt=23&_nc_ht=scontent-iad3-2.cdninstagram.com&edm=ANo9K5cEAAAA&_nc_gid=aVjKB8j2Mmj5DSQ1HweHSw&oh=00_AffBaVR92K71xu3Xabc4uYvQRM3RB_1xj0e1YX3IMVO7Cw&oe=69096939)







![? New Video: Why Does Sex Feel Like So Much Work? ??
As we age, physical changes, mismatched desire, and lack of communication can make intimacy feel more like work than connection. ? But it doesn’t have to be that way!
In my latest video, I’m breaking down:
✨ Why sex can feel harder as we get older
? How to talk to your partner about intimacy struggles
? Ways to reignite passion and emotional connection
? Watch now: [See Link Below]
And if you’re ready for deeper support, relationship coaching can help you rebuild trust, communication, and desire. DM me or check out my coaching services to get started. ?
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